By Natasha Rai
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The court of Nepal has given a favorable response to the petition filed by Blue diamond society (BDS) the LGBT organization in Nepal for the protection and rights for sexual and gender minorities. The court has also ruled that cross dressing should be taken as a freedom of expression and that all LGBT issues should be considered as natural phenomenon and that the court is open to look into the same sex partnership/marriage act. This makes me proud since even though Nepal is the only Hindu nation of the world with traditional and religious beliefs; it has proved to be open, sensitive and democratic to the individual sexual orientation of the people as compared to most of the developed nations.
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/09/20/world/asia/20pant.html?_r=2
httphttp://jurist.law.pitt.edu/paperchase/2008/11/nepal-supreme-court-approves-same-sex.php
Having said that, let’s not forget the fight the LGBT community of Nepal had to go through for their rights and freedom. The only gay organization, Nepal Blue Diamond Society and its LGBT members established, expressed and celebrated the LGBT diversity through public forums, dances and parades in the last 5 years. It also fought its battle with the local police.
http://www.bds.org.np/
http://picasaweb.google.com/Roshan.Verghese/CelebratingDiversity
http://sheilaandroshan.blogspot.com/2007/08/its-gai-jatra-festival-again.html
http://www.ukgaynews.org.uk/Archive/2005aug/2002.htm
The society also organized beauty pageants for Nepalese transgender and crowned first Miss T Nepal who represented the international transsexual pageant in Bangkok.
http://www.globalgayz.com/nepal-news07-08.html#article8
http://www.mysinchew.com/node/5242
It was international news, when BDS organized the openly gay marriage
in Kathmandu without any protest from the public.
The Transgender contesting for the local election was news that was widely accepted by the people in Nepal
http://sheilaandroshan.blogspot.com/2006/08/bold-and-beautiful.html
The head of BDS Mr Sunil Babu Pant is the only elected openly gay member of parliament of the region who has been nominated by the Maoist Government of Nepal.
We are proud of LGBT community of Nepal for its achievements in such a short term and we celebrate its victory and learn that with pride, expression and acceptance we can win any war!
South Asian LGBTQ News and Views
Monday
Tuesday
CONGRATS - NATASHA / MALINI
T-Fare congratulates Natasha Rai and Malini Malhotra for bagging the lead roles of Meghna and Shonali respectively.
Malini Nanku Malhotra has indicated that this would be the latest challenge in her career. "I love to experiment with my roles and keep my fans waiting for more. I started my career playing a courtesan in Devdas and then moved quickly into the role of a devious teenager in GMM. With KANK I shattered my 'good girl' image by playing an unfaithful woman and then gained critical acclaim for playing a traditional housewife in Silsila. Finally, with Fashion the audience delivered the verdict that I am more glamorous than the traditionally glamorous actresses! At this stage of my career, I am not interested in doing the usual and I am only looking for roles that challenge me as an actress. Shonali's character of a top supermodel who looses her title, her morals and eventually even her life sounds very exciting. Mom will be helping me narrow down my dresses for the film between a Vera Wang and a Christian Dior. I want to thank all my fans for giving me this opportunity to play my dream role!"
Natasha also seems very excited about playing Meghna's role. She says "I am grateful to my loving fans who voted for me for the role of Meghna Mathur in Trollywood version of Fashion. I appreciate your love and trust in me and I promise I will do my best to live the role. The role of Meghna has been very dear to me as I could relate myself totally to her character. As an aspiring actress I struggled, aspired and established an identity of my own in Trollywood despite all the hurdles, lash outs and lost love. I developed a strong attitude in order to survive here and soon labelled as an arrogant and heartless. I made mistake and lost some friends and loved ones just like Meghna did but I have fans like you and family like BPP who stood by me as you could understand the Real me. So thank you and I assure you I will not freeze on the head ramp and I will do my last walk with pride and grace and who knows I may also make it to the Paris fashion show!"
Malini Nanku Malhotra has indicated that this would be the latest challenge in her career. "I love to experiment with my roles and keep my fans waiting for more. I started my career playing a courtesan in Devdas and then moved quickly into the role of a devious teenager in GMM. With KANK I shattered my 'good girl' image by playing an unfaithful woman and then gained critical acclaim for playing a traditional housewife in Silsila. Finally, with Fashion the audience delivered the verdict that I am more glamorous than the traditionally glamorous actresses! At this stage of my career, I am not interested in doing the usual and I am only looking for roles that challenge me as an actress. Shonali's character of a top supermodel who looses her title, her morals and eventually even her life sounds very exciting. Mom will be helping me narrow down my dresses for the film between a Vera Wang and a Christian Dior. I want to thank all my fans for giving me this opportunity to play my dream role!"
Natasha also seems very excited about playing Meghna's role. She says "I am grateful to my loving fans who voted for me for the role of Meghna Mathur in Trollywood version of Fashion. I appreciate your love and trust in me and I promise I will do my best to live the role. The role of Meghna has been very dear to me as I could relate myself totally to her character. As an aspiring actress I struggled, aspired and established an identity of my own in Trollywood despite all the hurdles, lash outs and lost love. I developed a strong attitude in order to survive here and soon labelled as an arrogant and heartless. I made mistake and lost some friends and loved ones just like Meghna did but I have fans like you and family like BPP who stood by me as you could understand the Real me. So thank you and I assure you I will not freeze on the head ramp and I will do my last walk with pride and grace and who knows I may also make it to the Paris fashion show!"
Sunday
Vote for your FASHION cast now!
Irvine, CA on Sunday, November 23, 2008
By Senior Editor: Kanti R. Shah / T-Fare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: KANTI
With less than two days before polls close, there is a dead heat for the lead roles of Kangana, Priyanka and Mugdha in BPP's upcoming FASHION. As things stand right now, there is a tie between Malini and Natasha for Priyanka's role and Monisha is being favored for Mugdha's role (assuming that either Malini or Natasha will be cast in Kangana's role).
BPP producer Bhansali remarked "this is the beauty of democracy that with polls we are able to increase awareness of our films as well as give people what they truly want. We are absolutely committed to respecting the will of the people." So what happens if there is a tie as is currently the case? "In the event of a tie, there will be a single poll lasting only 24 hours between those actors that are tied." Does Bhansali have any personal favorites for each character? In other words, is BPP endorsing any particular actress for a particular role? "First and foremost, we are committed to respecting the will of the people. Having said that, as a director I am endorsing Malini for the role of Kangana and Natasha for the role of Priyanka. I feel strongly that this would be the ideal cast and I am glad that both Malini and Natasha agree with me. Malini is very excited about playing Kangana's challenging role as a top supermodel who fights abuse and addiction and Natasha personally relates to Priyanka's role. As far as Mugdha's role, Monisha's terrific debut performance in RACE has landed her straight into the big league. She is obviously here to stay and I wish her the best."
By Senior Editor: Kanti R. Shah / T-Fare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: KANTI
With less than two days before polls close, there is a dead heat for the lead roles of Kangana, Priyanka and Mugdha in BPP's upcoming FASHION. As things stand right now, there is a tie between Malini and Natasha for Priyanka's role and Monisha is being favored for Mugdha's role (assuming that either Malini or Natasha will be cast in Kangana's role).
BPP producer Bhansali remarked "this is the beauty of democracy that with polls we are able to increase awareness of our films as well as give people what they truly want. We are absolutely committed to respecting the will of the people." So what happens if there is a tie as is currently the case? "In the event of a tie, there will be a single poll lasting only 24 hours between those actors that are tied." Does Bhansali have any personal favorites for each character? In other words, is BPP endorsing any particular actress for a particular role? "First and foremost, we are committed to respecting the will of the people. Having said that, as a director I am endorsing Malini for the role of Kangana and Natasha for the role of Priyanka. I feel strongly that this would be the ideal cast and I am glad that both Malini and Natasha agree with me. Malini is very excited about playing Kangana's challenging role as a top supermodel who fights abuse and addiction and Natasha personally relates to Priyanka's role. As far as Mugdha's role, Monisha's terrific debut performance in RACE has landed her straight into the big league. She is obviously here to stay and I wish her the best."
Wednesday
RACE brings Malini & Natasha together again!
No two actresses have been as talked about, as loved or as hated as Malini Nanku Malhotra and Natasha Rai. Whether you love them or hate them, you certainly cannot ignore them! We bring you the interviews of both these divas who will battle for your attention along with Monisha (Mini) on the eve of RACE's worldwide release:
Malini N. Malhotra (SOPHIA)
Tell us how difficult it was to prepare for this role in Race and how different it is from your last blockbuster Silsila?
My role in all previous films and especially in Race have all been very simple and homely. It was not a conscious effort on my part to take on only Indianized roles. But probably Bhansaliji felt that this is how my audience wanted to see me and I don't blame him since all my movies have worked wonders at the box office. When Race was offered to me I was very hesitant because I had never done anything like this before. First, I was working for a director with a notorious reputation with films like Bistar. Plus the role was very westernized and I didn't know if my fans would accept me in such a role. Even though I initially turned it down twice, Kanti kept coming back and convinced me that he was making a very classy film this time. He even signed a contract with a long list of my conditions. Still, before signing the film, I wanted to make sure that I could carry off the role and not make a fool of myself. So I worked very hard with my fitness instructor to get a toned body and slipped comfortably into size zero outfits before accepting this film!
Early critics reviews for Race have been mixed for both you and Natasha. But most critics have lavished their praises on Monisha. Do you think the audience will agree with the critics or will you be able to meet your fan's huge expectations after KANK, LCMD & Silsila?
Monisha is my dearly beloved sister in law and after reading her recent interview I have to say that she’s turning into a very competitive actress! I loved how she raised expectations for her senior actresses in order to come across as the surprise packet. I am sure that with time she will mature into a fine actress and possibly overtake both Natasha and myself. I applaud her strong ambition and dedication to her career but this being her first film; she has a long way to go. For a first film of course she has done wonders. When I started out, I trusted the wrong people so my make up, styling and photography were all ruined so that I would look bad. But Monisha doesn’t have to go through all that because she has an experienced actress as her sister in-law! To answer your question though, I think both Natasha and I have a huge fan following so obviously we will get a better response from the audience than Monisha. It is very unfair to compare her to us.
What made you get out of your comfort zone and accept a film directed by BPP's debutant director? Are you not scared that he might ruin your career after previous C-graders in non-BPP banners?
This is an interesting question so let me explain my reasoning for accepting RACE. I understand that the film is a risk compared to my previous choices but one must take some calculated risks in order to grow as an actress. I see this role as a great opportunity to prove that I can handle any role with any filmmaker. Honestly, the risk is not as big as you would think. Since we started our careers together just like Preity and Rani, the audience really likes my 'on screen' chemistry with Natasha. Both Preity and Rani have given many flops but never when they worked together. Similarly, every film that cast us together has become a blockbuster and I am betting that this will be no exception. I understand that the day I let my personal life interfere with my professional life, my career will be over. So no matter what our personal differences, I think Natasha and I rock on the big screen and I am committed to keeping our fans happy by working in many more films with this very talented actress.
Natasha Rai (SONIA)
Tell us how difficult it was to prepare for this role in Race and how different it is from your last blockbuster Silsila?
Preparation for Race was not difficult at all as I have done similar modern girl's role in KANK. My makeup man and dress designer deserve the credit. The role of Sonia's in Race is different from Chandani's in Silsila in the sense of wardrobe, hair and presentation. However, both roles have modern flair to it. Acting wise, Race was easy and light and lots of fun whereas Silsila was deep and intense.
Early critics reviews for Race have been mixed for both you and Malini. But most critics have lavished their praises on Monisha. Do you think the audience will agree with the critics or will you be able to meet your fan's huge expectations after KANK, LCMD & Silsila?
I have seen Monisha's acting during the shootings and she has done a great job as a debutante. Its natural for critics to do the comments on new face and talent but its not fair to make any comparison with the seasoned actresses. I have played my role to the best and now I leave it to my audience to be the judge. I have faith that Race will be a winner for all of us.
What made you get out of your comfort zone and accept a film directed by BPP's debutant director? Are you not scared that he might ruin your career after previous C-graders in non-BPP banners?
Kanti R. Shah's direction has come a long way from being a famous director of C grade movies to the top notch, realistic director of Madhur Bhandarkar fame. Though I have been a find and protégé of Bhansali's camp, I have absolute freedom to work with other directors. Kanti approached me for Sonia's role for Race, I loved the character and accepted it which was a wise decision. He has been a great director to work with and has done full justice to his debut production.
Malini N. Malhotra (SOPHIA)
Tell us how difficult it was to prepare for this role in Race and how different it is from your last blockbuster Silsila?
My role in all previous films and especially in Race have all been very simple and homely. It was not a conscious effort on my part to take on only Indianized roles. But probably Bhansaliji felt that this is how my audience wanted to see me and I don't blame him since all my movies have worked wonders at the box office. When Race was offered to me I was very hesitant because I had never done anything like this before. First, I was working for a director with a notorious reputation with films like Bistar. Plus the role was very westernized and I didn't know if my fans would accept me in such a role. Even though I initially turned it down twice, Kanti kept coming back and convinced me that he was making a very classy film this time. He even signed a contract with a long list of my conditions. Still, before signing the film, I wanted to make sure that I could carry off the role and not make a fool of myself. So I worked very hard with my fitness instructor to get a toned body and slipped comfortably into size zero outfits before accepting this film!
Early critics reviews for Race have been mixed for both you and Natasha. But most critics have lavished their praises on Monisha. Do you think the audience will agree with the critics or will you be able to meet your fan's huge expectations after KANK, LCMD & Silsila?
Monisha is my dearly beloved sister in law and after reading her recent interview I have to say that she’s turning into a very competitive actress! I loved how she raised expectations for her senior actresses in order to come across as the surprise packet. I am sure that with time she will mature into a fine actress and possibly overtake both Natasha and myself. I applaud her strong ambition and dedication to her career but this being her first film; she has a long way to go. For a first film of course she has done wonders. When I started out, I trusted the wrong people so my make up, styling and photography were all ruined so that I would look bad. But Monisha doesn’t have to go through all that because she has an experienced actress as her sister in-law! To answer your question though, I think both Natasha and I have a huge fan following so obviously we will get a better response from the audience than Monisha. It is very unfair to compare her to us.
What made you get out of your comfort zone and accept a film directed by BPP's debutant director? Are you not scared that he might ruin your career after previous C-graders in non-BPP banners?
This is an interesting question so let me explain my reasoning for accepting RACE. I understand that the film is a risk compared to my previous choices but one must take some calculated risks in order to grow as an actress. I see this role as a great opportunity to prove that I can handle any role with any filmmaker. Honestly, the risk is not as big as you would think. Since we started our careers together just like Preity and Rani, the audience really likes my 'on screen' chemistry with Natasha. Both Preity and Rani have given many flops but never when they worked together. Similarly, every film that cast us together has become a blockbuster and I am betting that this will be no exception. I understand that the day I let my personal life interfere with my professional life, my career will be over. So no matter what our personal differences, I think Natasha and I rock on the big screen and I am committed to keeping our fans happy by working in many more films with this very talented actress.
Natasha Rai (SONIA)
Tell us how difficult it was to prepare for this role in Race and how different it is from your last blockbuster Silsila?
Preparation for Race was not difficult at all as I have done similar modern girl's role in KANK. My makeup man and dress designer deserve the credit. The role of Sonia's in Race is different from Chandani's in Silsila in the sense of wardrobe, hair and presentation. However, both roles have modern flair to it. Acting wise, Race was easy and light and lots of fun whereas Silsila was deep and intense.
Early critics reviews for Race have been mixed for both you and Malini. But most critics have lavished their praises on Monisha. Do you think the audience will agree with the critics or will you be able to meet your fan's huge expectations after KANK, LCMD & Silsila?
I have seen Monisha's acting during the shootings and she has done a great job as a debutante. Its natural for critics to do the comments on new face and talent but its not fair to make any comparison with the seasoned actresses. I have played my role to the best and now I leave it to my audience to be the judge. I have faith that Race will be a winner for all of us.
What made you get out of your comfort zone and accept a film directed by BPP's debutant director? Are you not scared that he might ruin your career after previous C-graders in non-BPP banners?
Kanti R. Shah's direction has come a long way from being a famous director of C grade movies to the top notch, realistic director of Madhur Bhandarkar fame. Though I have been a find and protégé of Bhansali's camp, I have absolute freedom to work with other directors. Kanti approached me for Sonia's role for Race, I loved the character and accepted it which was a wise decision. He has been a great director to work with and has done full justice to his debut production.
Monday
Critics Reviews - RACE
As promised, we present 2 "fair and balanced" reviews of RACE!
Shonali Kapoor
Toronto, Canada
Let's clear the misconception at the very outset. RACE is not even remotely similar to last year's spectacular KANK, as is being widely speculated. Having cleared the misconception, let's get into the analyzing mode. When the director of several successful crass thrillers decides to direct a classy film for a prestigious banner, expect nothing but the best. Right? Wrong! Director Kanti R Shah tries his best to rise above his previous films like Lage Raho Partner, Khooni Dracula and Bistar for his first prestigious film but fails to live up to the BPP name. Race seems more of the same kind of films that Kanti has been making and the BPP/Bhansali touch is clearly missing.
Much has been written and talked about the rivalry between Natasha Rai and Malini Malhotra and that their pairing would create fireworks. While this has been true for all their previous films including Devdas, GMM, KANK and LCMD, there’s no such thing in Race. Malini Malhotra looks too desperate in an effort to shake off her simple image, by wearing skimpy outfits unfit for a married woman of her age. Age also seems to have caught up with Natasha who is looking tired and very dark. The surprise packet of the film is newcomer Monisha Rai Malhotra. In her very first film she stands out from the crowd. The girl not only has the body but also a million dollar face. Not once do you get the feeling that you’re looking at a T-girl. She could give a lot of attractive female models a run for their money! Watch out for this girl who is sure to go places.
So should you go watch RACE? Absolutely. Do it for Monisha or your love and loyalty to a banner that has given us several top films in the past. No one is perfect and BPP is certainly no exception.
Laila Gudwani
Mumbai, India
As I saunters in a preview theatre to watch a select screening of RACE, a few questions cross my mind:
• Will RACE match up to the high standards of AL Bhansali’s earlier flicks, Devdas, KANK, LCMD and Silsila in terms of style, substance and success?
• Will the Malini/Natasha combo magic work the fifth time round?
• Will a lack of top male leads like Niraj and Rajiv work at the box-office?
• Will Malini be convincing as glamorous Sophia?
• Will the reel like pairing of real life couple Saagar and Monisha work?
• Will Monisha be able to make an impact in a multi-starrer debut film?
And as the magic unfolds on the big screen, the doubts, if any, are set to rest:
• Yes, RACE does live up to the expectations. Will it be as successful as Bhansali’s earlier flicks, only time will tell.
• Yes, the Malini/Natasha sizzling magic does cast a “spell” the fifth time around. The film works, courtesy Malini’s incredible screen presence and Natasha’s outstanding performance. Both seem to bring out the best in the other and both have NEVER looked better than this.
• Yes, Saagar makes a strong impact and Kanti’s brilliant styling will ensure that he will soon be in the same league as Niraj and Rajiv
• YES YES YES! Malini has never looked better and arguably stands out as the most glamorous of the 3 actresses
• The subject that RACE boasts of and the tremendous on screen chemistry, only a director with mettle would've been able to do complete justice to it. While watching this flick, not once does the viewer feel that it has been directed by a first-timer. And that's a compliment for debutante director Kanti R. Shah
• Yes! Monisha manages to hold her own in a debut film where she’s pitted against seasoned actresses like Malini & Natasha
One can't imagine RACE without Saagar Malhotra. The actor delivers yet another bravura performance that he can be proud of, when he looks back in life. The role gives him immense scope to exhibit a gamut of emotions and the actor carries not just his role, but the entire film on his firm shoulders. This film will surely put him in a powerful position to rival the current numero uno – Niraj Khan!
Malini Malhotra has never looked so pretty, nor has she ever played a part with such conviction. The film will further cement her position as the numero uno actress. Natasha Rai looks every bit the stylish Sonia and if there were any doubts about her future in Trollywood, they will disappear. This film will consolidate her status as an actress of style and substance. Monisha Malhotra is a revelation. The actress manages to stand on her own despite towering performances by Malini and Natasha. Not only does the actress look suave, she even carries off her role with complete conviction.
On the whole, RACE has all it takes to emerge victorious. At the box-office, the face-value and the track record of its makers have resulted in tremendous hype and hoopla. Keeping in mind its merits and the opening that the film has generated, RACE should emerge a winner, setting new records in days to come!
Shonali Kapoor
Toronto, Canada
Let's clear the misconception at the very outset. RACE is not even remotely similar to last year's spectacular KANK, as is being widely speculated. Having cleared the misconception, let's get into the analyzing mode. When the director of several successful crass thrillers decides to direct a classy film for a prestigious banner, expect nothing but the best. Right? Wrong! Director Kanti R Shah tries his best to rise above his previous films like Lage Raho Partner, Khooni Dracula and Bistar for his first prestigious film but fails to live up to the BPP name. Race seems more of the same kind of films that Kanti has been making and the BPP/Bhansali touch is clearly missing.
Much has been written and talked about the rivalry between Natasha Rai and Malini Malhotra and that their pairing would create fireworks. While this has been true for all their previous films including Devdas, GMM, KANK and LCMD, there’s no such thing in Race. Malini Malhotra looks too desperate in an effort to shake off her simple image, by wearing skimpy outfits unfit for a married woman of her age. Age also seems to have caught up with Natasha who is looking tired and very dark. The surprise packet of the film is newcomer Monisha Rai Malhotra. In her very first film she stands out from the crowd. The girl not only has the body but also a million dollar face. Not once do you get the feeling that you’re looking at a T-girl. She could give a lot of attractive female models a run for their money! Watch out for this girl who is sure to go places.
So should you go watch RACE? Absolutely. Do it for Monisha or your love and loyalty to a banner that has given us several top films in the past. No one is perfect and BPP is certainly no exception.
Laila Gudwani
Mumbai, India
As I saunters in a preview theatre to watch a select screening of RACE, a few questions cross my mind:
• Will RACE match up to the high standards of AL Bhansali’s earlier flicks, Devdas, KANK, LCMD and Silsila in terms of style, substance and success?
• Will the Malini/Natasha combo magic work the fifth time round?
• Will a lack of top male leads like Niraj and Rajiv work at the box-office?
• Will Malini be convincing as glamorous Sophia?
• Will the reel like pairing of real life couple Saagar and Monisha work?
• Will Monisha be able to make an impact in a multi-starrer debut film?
And as the magic unfolds on the big screen, the doubts, if any, are set to rest:
• Yes, RACE does live up to the expectations. Will it be as successful as Bhansali’s earlier flicks, only time will tell.
• Yes, the Malini/Natasha sizzling magic does cast a “spell” the fifth time around. The film works, courtesy Malini’s incredible screen presence and Natasha’s outstanding performance. Both seem to bring out the best in the other and both have NEVER looked better than this.
• Yes, Saagar makes a strong impact and Kanti’s brilliant styling will ensure that he will soon be in the same league as Niraj and Rajiv
• YES YES YES! Malini has never looked better and arguably stands out as the most glamorous of the 3 actresses
• The subject that RACE boasts of and the tremendous on screen chemistry, only a director with mettle would've been able to do complete justice to it. While watching this flick, not once does the viewer feel that it has been directed by a first-timer. And that's a compliment for debutante director Kanti R. Shah
• Yes! Monisha manages to hold her own in a debut film where she’s pitted against seasoned actresses like Malini & Natasha
One can't imagine RACE without Saagar Malhotra. The actor delivers yet another bravura performance that he can be proud of, when he looks back in life. The role gives him immense scope to exhibit a gamut of emotions and the actor carries not just his role, but the entire film on his firm shoulders. This film will surely put him in a powerful position to rival the current numero uno – Niraj Khan!
Malini Malhotra has never looked so pretty, nor has she ever played a part with such conviction. The film will further cement her position as the numero uno actress. Natasha Rai looks every bit the stylish Sonia and if there were any doubts about her future in Trollywood, they will disappear. This film will consolidate her status as an actress of style and substance. Monisha Malhotra is a revelation. The actress manages to stand on her own despite towering performances by Malini and Natasha. Not only does the actress look suave, she even carries off her role with complete conviction.
On the whole, RACE has all it takes to emerge victorious. At the box-office, the face-value and the track record of its makers have resulted in tremendous hype and hoopla. Keeping in mind its merits and the opening that the film has generated, RACE should emerge a winner, setting new records in days to come!
Friday
'Nothing less than PERFECT is expected from Natasha & Malini in RACE!' - Monisha Malhotra
- Monisha Rai Malhotra (Mini) takes on Trollywood queen bees Malini & Natasha in her first interview with T-Fare -
Irvine, CA on Friday, November 7, 2008
By Senior Editor: Kanti R. Shah / T-Fare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: KANTI
Congratulations on your wedding, your first interview and your first movie release. How nervous are you?
I have to say I am disappointed that inspite of my high profile marriage into the Malhotra family and a big upcoming film, you guys continue to give me the step-sisterly treatment. So, even though there's so much going on in my life, it has not quite sunk in because there's been no publicity. I suspect that it might be because the Trollywood press is biased in favor of a select few individuals. However, I'm excited about bagging this role and really excited to see the audoence reaction. After all, it’s the audience and not the press that is going to decide my fate.
Even though Race is your debut, no one seems to be talking about your role. All the discussion has been focussed on Malini's new look and her rivalry with Natasha. Do you feel left out?
Of course I do! But it's okay. I strongly believe that if it's meant to be, it will be and no producer or press can keep a good actress down for long. Besides, I love being the underdog. It's great when the audience does not have any expectations from you because you can actually surprise them. On the other hand my respected contemporaries have such huge expectations from the audience. After movies like KANK, LCMD and SILSILA nothing less than perfect is expected from them. But will they be able to meet these big expectations and that too in their first film without AL Bhansali direction? Many people seem to forget that both of them have never worked outside Bhansali's direction. So, this will be a big test to see if they are accepted in a newcomer's film. If I was them I would be EXTREMELY nervous right now. Unfortunately in the film world I am their contemporary so I can't wish them luck but I do wish them well. (smiles)
What made you accept a multi-starrer like Race for your debut film? Wouldn't it have been wiser to make your entry in a solo role?
It's really the content of a character that appeals to me and not the length of role. I have full faith in my director and I don't believe that he would do me wrong. But to get the true answer for your question, all I have to say is - go watch Race and find out for yourself!
Irvine, CA on Friday, November 7, 2008
By Senior Editor: Kanti R. Shah / T-Fare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: KANTI
Congratulations on your wedding, your first interview and your first movie release. How nervous are you?
I have to say I am disappointed that inspite of my high profile marriage into the Malhotra family and a big upcoming film, you guys continue to give me the step-sisterly treatment. So, even though there's so much going on in my life, it has not quite sunk in because there's been no publicity. I suspect that it might be because the Trollywood press is biased in favor of a select few individuals. However, I'm excited about bagging this role and really excited to see the audoence reaction. After all, it’s the audience and not the press that is going to decide my fate.
Even though Race is your debut, no one seems to be talking about your role. All the discussion has been focussed on Malini's new look and her rivalry with Natasha. Do you feel left out?
Of course I do! But it's okay. I strongly believe that if it's meant to be, it will be and no producer or press can keep a good actress down for long. Besides, I love being the underdog. It's great when the audience does not have any expectations from you because you can actually surprise them. On the other hand my respected contemporaries have such huge expectations from the audience. After movies like KANK, LCMD and SILSILA nothing less than perfect is expected from them. But will they be able to meet these big expectations and that too in their first film without AL Bhansali direction? Many people seem to forget that both of them have never worked outside Bhansali's direction. So, this will be a big test to see if they are accepted in a newcomer's film. If I was them I would be EXTREMELY nervous right now. Unfortunately in the film world I am their contemporary so I can't wish them luck but I do wish them well. (smiles)
What made you accept a multi-starrer like Race for your debut film? Wouldn't it have been wiser to make your entry in a solo role?
It's really the content of a character that appeals to me and not the length of role. I have full faith in my director and I don't believe that he would do me wrong. But to get the true answer for your question, all I have to say is - go watch Race and find out for yourself!
RACE - RELEASING ANYTIME
BPP Presents
II RACEII
A KANTI R. SHAH FILM
Malini N. Malhotra I Natasha Rai I Saagar Malhotra I Monisha Rai Malhotra
II RACEII
A KANTI R. SHAH FILM
Malini N. Malhotra I Natasha Rai I Saagar Malhotra I Monisha Rai Malhotra
Tuesday
Trans Children - By Natasha Rai
Now that I am comfortably settled in Canada where being trans is no big deal and
that I could live a normal life of being a girlfriend, a wife and even a mother. But whenever I think of my childhood growing up in South Asia and dreaming of being a girl still gives me a nightmare. My family's embarassment when I showed up in my sister's make up and dress at home and my dances in school drawing curiousity among my teachers and peers still hunt me. I am sure most of us relate to this experience and pride in struggle we took to finding our identity and being who we are today.
I was really touched and thought of my childhood when I watched the french movie
Ma vie en rose that I cried for days.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sue1FtD3-tg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8J_bYqQE9Qc
I am looking forward to the release of Sudipto Chattopadhyay's forthcoming
movie Pankh starring Bipasha Basu and a new boy Maradonna. This movie is about a boy
who cross dresses to play movie roles and thinks of being a girl. Bipasha is the imaginary diva he dreams to follow and is in love with.
http://www.indiaglitz.com/channels/hindi/article/41810.html
http://indiafm.co.in/index.php/2007/10/10/bipasha-basu-signs-her-first-art-house-movie-pankh/
http://movies.sulekha.com/hindi/pankh/pictures/1.htm
Recently I read the real life story of Brandon as narrated by Hanna Rosin on her article in the Atlantic magazine. It is so touchy and real that I could not help but wanted to share with all of you. Think how many of us were, are and will be like Brandons, the trans children.
http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200811/transgender-children
that I could live a normal life of being a girlfriend, a wife and even a mother. But whenever I think of my childhood growing up in South Asia and dreaming of being a girl still gives me a nightmare. My family's embarassment when I showed up in my sister's make up and dress at home and my dances in school drawing curiousity among my teachers and peers still hunt me. I am sure most of us relate to this experience and pride in struggle we took to finding our identity and being who we are today.
I was really touched and thought of my childhood when I watched the french movie
Ma vie en rose that I cried for days.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sue1FtD3-tg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8J_bYqQE9Qc
I am looking forward to the release of Sudipto Chattopadhyay's forthcoming
movie Pankh starring Bipasha Basu and a new boy Maradonna. This movie is about a boy
who cross dresses to play movie roles and thinks of being a girl. Bipasha is the imaginary diva he dreams to follow and is in love with.
http://www.indiaglitz.com/channels/hindi/article/41810.html
http://indiafm.co.in/index.php/2007/10/10/bipasha-basu-signs-her-first-art-house-movie-pankh/
http://movies.sulekha.com/hindi/pankh/pictures/1.htm
Recently I read the real life story of Brandon as narrated by Hanna Rosin on her article in the Atlantic magazine. It is so touchy and real that I could not help but wanted to share with all of you. Think how many of us were, are and will be like Brandons, the trans children.
http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200811/transgender-children
Friday
BREAKING NEWS - Malini Malhotra PREGNANT?
Irvine, CA on Friday, October 24, 2008
By Senior Editor: Kanti R. Shah / T-Fare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: KANTI
At T-Fare Online we are always the first to give you late breaking news. Today we have news from a reliable source that Rajiv & Malini Malhotra are expecting their first child.
Our source reveals that the child will be conceived by a surrogate mother with the help of Dr. Jeff Steinberg at The Fertility Institute in Los Angeles. The couple are already four months into pregnancy and the baby is expected in early March, 2009. They have known about the pregnancy since July so we wondered why they had to keep it a secret instead of sharing the joy with their fans? Our source reveals that "Malini is very superstitious and she didn't want to announce anything until the final months because she believes it is inauspicious." She is believed to have told her close friends that "kisi ki nazar lag sakti hai." The news explains a lot of things, especially the decision of their parents to suddenly move in with Rajiv & Malini in Vancouver. They must really be looking forward to their first grandchild.
Many of Rajiv & Malini Malhotra’s colleagues have expressed their good wishes. Ace producer-director Arun Bhansali said “With this news Rajiv and his wife have clearly strengthened their marriage and set a great example for others in the community. I wish them nothing but the best.” Newcomer Malati Chopra said “Nothing brings more joy than a baby and I hope that both Rajiv and Malini will be good parents to their child.” Rehan Khan commented that “Rajiv has really shown his good intentions and character with this very honorable decision to have children with his wife. As for Malini, she has only raised the bar for other T-girls by setting an exceptional example of what a good career woman should be like.” Malini’s arch rival in Trollywood, Natasha Rai also agreed stating, “Congratulations Malini and Rajiv. This is wonderful news. There is nothing like parenthood and you are truly blessed!” Niraj Khan said “Rajiv is one lucky man to not only have a woman like Malini but her baby as well. Good luck to the beautiful couple!” We at T-Fare also certainly hope that the couple will have a healthy baby and congratulate the lucky couple, on behalf of BPP and all their fans.
By Senior Editor: Kanti R. Shah / T-Fare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: KANTI
At T-Fare Online we are always the first to give you late breaking news. Today we have news from a reliable source that Rajiv & Malini Malhotra are expecting their first child.
Our source reveals that the child will be conceived by a surrogate mother with the help of Dr. Jeff Steinberg at The Fertility Institute in Los Angeles. The couple are already four months into pregnancy and the baby is expected in early March, 2009. They have known about the pregnancy since July so we wondered why they had to keep it a secret instead of sharing the joy with their fans? Our source reveals that "Malini is very superstitious and she didn't want to announce anything until the final months because she believes it is inauspicious." She is believed to have told her close friends that "kisi ki nazar lag sakti hai." The news explains a lot of things, especially the decision of their parents to suddenly move in with Rajiv & Malini in Vancouver. They must really be looking forward to their first grandchild.
Many of Rajiv & Malini Malhotra’s colleagues have expressed their good wishes. Ace producer-director Arun Bhansali said “With this news Rajiv and his wife have clearly strengthened their marriage and set a great example for others in the community. I wish them nothing but the best.” Newcomer Malati Chopra said “Nothing brings more joy than a baby and I hope that both Rajiv and Malini will be good parents to their child.” Rehan Khan commented that “Rajiv has really shown his good intentions and character with this very honorable decision to have children with his wife. As for Malini, she has only raised the bar for other T-girls by setting an exceptional example of what a good career woman should be like.” Malini’s arch rival in Trollywood, Natasha Rai also agreed stating, “Congratulations Malini and Rajiv. This is wonderful news. There is nothing like parenthood and you are truly blessed!” Niraj Khan said “Rajiv is one lucky man to not only have a woman like Malini but her baby as well. Good luck to the beautiful couple!” We at T-Fare also certainly hope that the couple will have a healthy baby and congratulate the lucky couple, on behalf of BPP and all their fans.
Tuesday
Aishwarya R. Bachchan Charged with Tax Fraud!
New York, NY on Tuesday, October 14, 2008
By Crime Reporter: Malati Chopra / T-Fare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: MALATI
The Bollywood Bachchan bahu may have been screaming from rooftops over the last 10 years about being a real, genuine and down to earth person. However, the Income Tax Department of India begs to differ. Income Tax commissioner, central-I, has dragged the actress to the Bombay High Court, charging her with tax-fraud!
According to Indian Tax laws, if a person stays out of the country for over 186 days, they are allowed to claim "Non resident Indian" status and avoid paying income taxes. 10 years ago, Aishwarya claimed to be an NRI and reported an income of only Rs, 2 lakhs. The Income taxmen raided her place recently and found that her passport showed that she was NOT an NRI during the tax assessment. She had been abroad for only 92 days. Therefore, she had fraudulently claimed that she was NRI and evaded thousands of dollars in income taxes. IT Officers found that she had also attempted to scam the government by evading taxes on the money she made from the Miss. World pageant (approximately £50,000).
In light of this development, many Trollywood celebrities have drawn parallels to the recent Richa Koppikar case. Saagar Malhotra responded "I never liked her from the beginning. I found her to be a very manipulative, greedy and fake person. Time has proven me right." Veteran director AL Bhansali echoed Saagar's words "When someone is genuinely nice, they don't need to remind people all the time that they are nice because this just screams fake. I am glad this episode is allowing people to see her for who she really is." Malini N. Malhotra had a different perspective "Aishwarya Rai Bachchan has been the ideal actress, wife and daughter in-law. She has been a role model for many of my fans. I will let Durga Ma judge her as humans should not do so."
By Crime Reporter: Malati Chopra / T-Fare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: MALATI
The Bollywood Bachchan bahu may have been screaming from rooftops over the last 10 years about being a real, genuine and down to earth person. However, the Income Tax Department of India begs to differ. Income Tax commissioner, central-I, has dragged the actress to the Bombay High Court, charging her with tax-fraud!
According to Indian Tax laws, if a person stays out of the country for over 186 days, they are allowed to claim "Non resident Indian" status and avoid paying income taxes. 10 years ago, Aishwarya claimed to be an NRI and reported an income of only Rs, 2 lakhs. The Income taxmen raided her place recently and found that her passport showed that she was NOT an NRI during the tax assessment. She had been abroad for only 92 days. Therefore, she had fraudulently claimed that she was NRI and evaded thousands of dollars in income taxes. IT Officers found that she had also attempted to scam the government by evading taxes on the money she made from the Miss. World pageant (approximately £50,000).
In light of this development, many Trollywood celebrities have drawn parallels to the recent Richa Koppikar case. Saagar Malhotra responded "I never liked her from the beginning. I found her to be a very manipulative, greedy and fake person. Time has proven me right." Veteran director AL Bhansali echoed Saagar's words "When someone is genuinely nice, they don't need to remind people all the time that they are nice because this just screams fake. I am glad this episode is allowing people to see her for who she really is." Malini N. Malhotra had a different perspective "Aishwarya Rai Bachchan has been the ideal actress, wife and daughter in-law. She has been a role model for many of my fans. I will let Durga Ma judge her as humans should not do so."
Monday
HAPPY DASHERA!!!
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Friday
- Rendezvous with Rajiv -
Vancouver, BC on Friday, October 3, 2008
By Senior Editor: Kanti R. Shah / T-Fare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: KANTI
Rajiv Malhotra has seen some pretty tough times. Whether its scams, spells or scums – he has battled them all. From a troubled teenager under his big brother’s shadows to holding his own in a high profile marriage to Trollywood’s queen bee Malini Malhotra. He has lived it all. I have to admit that there was a time when I was deeply concerned about his well being. But a very personal interview with Malhotra Jr. convinced me that he could not be doing better!
Kanti: Good evening and thank you Rajiv for agreeing to this unique one on one with us today. Your fans in Trollywood are anxiously awaiting this interview. I hope it is a fun experience for you as well, since I know you dislike interviews.
Rajiv: Thank you so much and I hope the interview will not disappoint. I definitely appreciate your time and efforts in making this possible. Considering I really don’t know most of your readers in person, I consider this a rare opportunity to present myself. Hopefully this gives the Trollywood community some perspective on who I am as a person – beyond the gossips and the drama. I hope they are able to see me for who I really am. I don't dislike interviews but it is my firm belief that one must have some boundaries and personal space. While I whole heartedly support Trollywood, it can sometimes come in the way of our right to privacy, as our recently stolen wedding pictures illustrate.
Kanti: I am glad you led me to my next question! Are you upset about this incident where one of your guests took unauthorized pictures at your family function?
Rajiv: I wouldn't say upset but definitely disappointed. That person is a friend of my bhabi or actually WAS a friend of my bhabi and I am pretty sure about that. It’s a sad day when a close friend betrays your trust and flaunts pictures of your private family moments, all for the sake of some cheap publicity. This speaks to her true character and lack of values.
Kanti: Your marriage with the very beautiful and in-demand Malini Nanku Malhotra has been the subject of tremendous curiosity in the industry. I know you don't like discussing your personal life but could you please set the record straight? We are a bit confused about how someone could rush into a marriage, then divorce and marry gain - all within a 2 year timeframe.
Rajiv: It’s really not as dramatic as you're making it sound. I know Trollywood has a tendency to dramatize everything but ours is a very real life love story. It is not filmy. Have we had our share of problems and misunderstandings? Of course we have – on many many occasions! But this is what makes any relationship real. I would strongly argue that any relationship that does NOT involve conflict and problems is not real at all. After all, if we have had problems and worked hard to resolve them, it demonstrates how deeply we care about one another. It shows you how committed we are to staying together and forsaking all others to be together. That was my marriage vow to Malini and I meant every word of it. To answer the specifics of your question, let me just say that we've been married just once. Did we come close to a divorce? Absolutely! I would be lying if I said we didn't. We came dangerously close to it. But what ultimately saved our marriage was Malini's unconditional love for our entire family. She has such a big heart and this has not just won me over but our entire Malhotra family. My brother is absolutely right when he said that while we were born with the Malhotra name, she has earned it!
Kanti: You undoubtedly dated the most number of actresses in Trollywood. That is probably one reason your strong marriage is a bit hard to digest for some people. Please comment?
Rajiv: When I first came to the States, I was young and gullible. I used to think with my heart and not my head. Believe me when I say that I did not play with anyone's emotions. On the contrary, people played with my emotions all the time. I was lied to, manipulated, misled, scammed and believe it or not even spelled! I am 100% serious and the reason I know this is because these women have confessed this themselves. That they went to foreign lands to acquire spells to cast on me like I was some sort of toy to play with. People have really treated me like dirt – some even played with my emotions by committing to me and then dumping me only to date someone in my own family! Can you imagine what kind of mental torture I must have gone through? I used to cry and almost lost my mind when this happened. What kind of people can do this to another human being? No wonder I was so mentally disturbed for the longest time. Malini met me at that phase of my life when I was an emotional mess. If I am strong, capable and just normal today the full credit goes to my wife’s commitment to me. She stood by me when everyone else turned their backs. I will never forget this and I will spend the rest of my life trying to make it up to her.
Kanti: I had never seen this emotional side of your personality. I am really touched Rajiv. But I know for a fact that many people genuinely cared and were concerned about your choices and worried for your safety at one time. Tell us a bit about where your life is right now.
Rajiv: My life is finally back on track. As you know, I am now a permanent resident of Canada so no more immigration issues. But more importantly, I was able to transfer a lot of the credit hours I received in California to my university here in BC. In fact I will be graduating with a Masters degree shortly. I might decide to go for a PhD later in life but for now my focus is to complete my Masters. I have an internship at HSBC Bank that might work out to a full-time position once I get my MBA. As for Trollywood, I am looking forward to playing Abhishek’s character in Dostana – provided you guys don’t cast my bhabi opposite me. That would just be too odd!
Kanti: Can you please explain your wife’s frequent trips to India?
Rajiv: As I said, Malini is very family oriented. All her trips back home were to spend time with in-laws. Sine my folks have moved here, she stopped going completely.
Kanti: Do you ever get jealous of your wife’s popularity and fan following? Do you realize that hundreds of people consider her to be an icon and the ideal woman?
Rajiv: They are only reaffirming what I have always believed – that she is the ideal woman. So why would I be jealous? If anything, I certainly hope that they are not jealous of me because while they are only able to fantasize about her, I am lucky enough to have her with me in real life! (laughs) But jokes aside, I know that there are so many people who really admire and respect her. It’s baffling and to be quite honest it defies logic considering most of these people don’t know her in person. Yet, they take the time to write to her and anxiously await all her movies. I know that she’s humbled by their love and support. But believe me she works very very hard to make sure that she always meets their expectations – whether it’s by playing a variety of roles or trying out a different look. But I think the bottom-line is that they like her because she keeps it real and makes it very easy for them to relate to her. She is gentle, humble, down to earth and yet very easy on the eyes. She is a true-life Chandramukhi. What else could anyone ask for?
Kanti: I wasn’t going to ask this question but I’d like to give you the opportunity to make a statement to all those girls that broke your heart.
Rajiv: What can I say? It’s ironic that some played with me by showing their bad character while others stayed away from me because they didn’t believe in my good character. Either ways, time has proved them wrong. Success is the sweetest revenge and my successful marriage with Malini speaks loud and clear about my good intentions and good character. But are any of them capable of a relationship in real life? (laughs) As much as they would like to believe that they are relationship material, they should ask themselves questions like why are they all single? The answer is not that they are unattractive women on the outside but they have a lot of work to do on the inside. Unfortunately, that is something even plastic surgery cannot fix! It cannot make someone a better person, a better human being. In any event, the good news is that I have truly moved on. Believe it or not, I have actually prayed for their happiness and well being. I am not the kind of person to hold grudges.
Kanti: That is very big of you Rajiv. So why not forgive, forget and give them a second chance?
Rajiv: (laughs) You know there’s an old saying in Hindi. I think it’s in English too – “Fool me once shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.”
If this interview does not dispell all doubts for you regarding Rajiv's tremendous strength of character, nothing else will. Today I found the friend I had lost somewhere during the last couple of years and this calls for a real celebration! On that note I decided to end the interview.
By Senior Editor: Kanti R. Shah / T-Fare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: KANTI
Rajiv Malhotra has seen some pretty tough times. Whether its scams, spells or scums – he has battled them all. From a troubled teenager under his big brother’s shadows to holding his own in a high profile marriage to Trollywood’s queen bee Malini Malhotra. He has lived it all. I have to admit that there was a time when I was deeply concerned about his well being. But a very personal interview with Malhotra Jr. convinced me that he could not be doing better!
Kanti: Good evening and thank you Rajiv for agreeing to this unique one on one with us today. Your fans in Trollywood are anxiously awaiting this interview. I hope it is a fun experience for you as well, since I know you dislike interviews.
Rajiv: Thank you so much and I hope the interview will not disappoint. I definitely appreciate your time and efforts in making this possible. Considering I really don’t know most of your readers in person, I consider this a rare opportunity to present myself. Hopefully this gives the Trollywood community some perspective on who I am as a person – beyond the gossips and the drama. I hope they are able to see me for who I really am. I don't dislike interviews but it is my firm belief that one must have some boundaries and personal space. While I whole heartedly support Trollywood, it can sometimes come in the way of our right to privacy, as our recently stolen wedding pictures illustrate.
Kanti: I am glad you led me to my next question! Are you upset about this incident where one of your guests took unauthorized pictures at your family function?
Rajiv: I wouldn't say upset but definitely disappointed. That person is a friend of my bhabi or actually WAS a friend of my bhabi and I am pretty sure about that. It’s a sad day when a close friend betrays your trust and flaunts pictures of your private family moments, all for the sake of some cheap publicity. This speaks to her true character and lack of values.
Kanti: Your marriage with the very beautiful and in-demand Malini Nanku Malhotra has been the subject of tremendous curiosity in the industry. I know you don't like discussing your personal life but could you please set the record straight? We are a bit confused about how someone could rush into a marriage, then divorce and marry gain - all within a 2 year timeframe.
Rajiv: It’s really not as dramatic as you're making it sound. I know Trollywood has a tendency to dramatize everything but ours is a very real life love story. It is not filmy. Have we had our share of problems and misunderstandings? Of course we have – on many many occasions! But this is what makes any relationship real. I would strongly argue that any relationship that does NOT involve conflict and problems is not real at all. After all, if we have had problems and worked hard to resolve them, it demonstrates how deeply we care about one another. It shows you how committed we are to staying together and forsaking all others to be together. That was my marriage vow to Malini and I meant every word of it. To answer the specifics of your question, let me just say that we've been married just once. Did we come close to a divorce? Absolutely! I would be lying if I said we didn't. We came dangerously close to it. But what ultimately saved our marriage was Malini's unconditional love for our entire family. She has such a big heart and this has not just won me over but our entire Malhotra family. My brother is absolutely right when he said that while we were born with the Malhotra name, she has earned it!
Kanti: You undoubtedly dated the most number of actresses in Trollywood. That is probably one reason your strong marriage is a bit hard to digest for some people. Please comment?
Rajiv: When I first came to the States, I was young and gullible. I used to think with my heart and not my head. Believe me when I say that I did not play with anyone's emotions. On the contrary, people played with my emotions all the time. I was lied to, manipulated, misled, scammed and believe it or not even spelled! I am 100% serious and the reason I know this is because these women have confessed this themselves. That they went to foreign lands to acquire spells to cast on me like I was some sort of toy to play with. People have really treated me like dirt – some even played with my emotions by committing to me and then dumping me only to date someone in my own family! Can you imagine what kind of mental torture I must have gone through? I used to cry and almost lost my mind when this happened. What kind of people can do this to another human being? No wonder I was so mentally disturbed for the longest time. Malini met me at that phase of my life when I was an emotional mess. If I am strong, capable and just normal today the full credit goes to my wife’s commitment to me. She stood by me when everyone else turned their backs. I will never forget this and I will spend the rest of my life trying to make it up to her.
Kanti: I had never seen this emotional side of your personality. I am really touched Rajiv. But I know for a fact that many people genuinely cared and were concerned about your choices and worried for your safety at one time. Tell us a bit about where your life is right now.
Rajiv: My life is finally back on track. As you know, I am now a permanent resident of Canada so no more immigration issues. But more importantly, I was able to transfer a lot of the credit hours I received in California to my university here in BC. In fact I will be graduating with a Masters degree shortly. I might decide to go for a PhD later in life but for now my focus is to complete my Masters. I have an internship at HSBC Bank that might work out to a full-time position once I get my MBA. As for Trollywood, I am looking forward to playing Abhishek’s character in Dostana – provided you guys don’t cast my bhabi opposite me. That would just be too odd!
Kanti: Can you please explain your wife’s frequent trips to India?
Rajiv: As I said, Malini is very family oriented. All her trips back home were to spend time with in-laws. Sine my folks have moved here, she stopped going completely.
Kanti: Do you ever get jealous of your wife’s popularity and fan following? Do you realize that hundreds of people consider her to be an icon and the ideal woman?
Rajiv: They are only reaffirming what I have always believed – that she is the ideal woman. So why would I be jealous? If anything, I certainly hope that they are not jealous of me because while they are only able to fantasize about her, I am lucky enough to have her with me in real life! (laughs) But jokes aside, I know that there are so many people who really admire and respect her. It’s baffling and to be quite honest it defies logic considering most of these people don’t know her in person. Yet, they take the time to write to her and anxiously await all her movies. I know that she’s humbled by their love and support. But believe me she works very very hard to make sure that she always meets their expectations – whether it’s by playing a variety of roles or trying out a different look. But I think the bottom-line is that they like her because she keeps it real and makes it very easy for them to relate to her. She is gentle, humble, down to earth and yet very easy on the eyes. She is a true-life Chandramukhi. What else could anyone ask for?
Kanti: I wasn’t going to ask this question but I’d like to give you the opportunity to make a statement to all those girls that broke your heart.
Rajiv: What can I say? It’s ironic that some played with me by showing their bad character while others stayed away from me because they didn’t believe in my good character. Either ways, time has proved them wrong. Success is the sweetest revenge and my successful marriage with Malini speaks loud and clear about my good intentions and good character. But are any of them capable of a relationship in real life? (laughs) As much as they would like to believe that they are relationship material, they should ask themselves questions like why are they all single? The answer is not that they are unattractive women on the outside but they have a lot of work to do on the inside. Unfortunately, that is something even plastic surgery cannot fix! It cannot make someone a better person, a better human being. In any event, the good news is that I have truly moved on. Believe it or not, I have actually prayed for their happiness and well being. I am not the kind of person to hold grudges.
Kanti: That is very big of you Rajiv. So why not forgive, forget and give them a second chance?
Rajiv: (laughs) You know there’s an old saying in Hindi. I think it’s in English too – “Fool me once shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.”
If this interview does not dispell all doubts for you regarding Rajiv's tremendous strength of character, nothing else will. Today I found the friend I had lost somewhere during the last couple of years and this calls for a real celebration! On that note I decided to end the interview.
Saturday
- Queer Bollywood -
Burnaby, Canada on Saturday, September 27, 2008
By Research Reporter: Natasha Rai / Gayfare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: NATASHA
Supermodel turned struggling actor of Kamasutra condom fame, hunky Marc Robisnson exposes the "A" list of gay celebrities of Bollywood who for the sake of name and fame ask and give sexual favors. King Khan topping the list followed by names like Sanjay Leela Bhansali, Karan Johar, Manish Malhotra, Mahesh Manjrekar, Ashish Choudhary...the list is endless. Sonu Nigham accuses journalist Subash K Jha for sexual molestation and Sahil Khan thinks he is thegay idol. Thank God our Trollywood is safe and supportive.
http://www.gaybombay.org/reading/bollywood.htm
http://indiaindeedindepth.blogspot.com/2007/10/bollywoods-gay-casting-couch-is-out-of.html
Shahrukh Khan's bisexuality and romance with Karan Johar is well known and so is Saif Ali Khan's effeminate proved by his ladies, mard Amrita Singh, italian transvestite Rosa and boyish size 0 Kareena. Salman Khan's true love is not Aishwarya or Katrina but dancer Manoj from Canada. Looks like the Khans have the thing for it.
http://www.desifans.com/news/20061386
http://bollywoodwatch.blogspot.com/search/label/effeminate
http://www.indianpad.com/story/16493
Akshay Kumar to Abhisek Bachchan to newcomer Ranbir Kapoor has been the gay icon with Bachchan Junior being happy with this honour and Ranbir Kapoor not too comfortable with it. But hey doesn't it run in Kapoor family? Ask about Shashi Kapoor and Rishi Kapoor's fascination for skirts.
http://www.apunkachoice.com/scoop/bollywood/20071008-4.html
Gay culture has hit Bollywood big time with most of the directors wanting to cast top stars as gay characters in their movies with Madhur Bhandarkar shooting scandalous gay fellatio in PAGE 3 to casting Harsh Chaya as gay designer in FASHION luring after male body. Cutie Sanjay Suri playing gay in MY BROTHER NIKHIL to Baddy Irfan Khan wanting gay sex in Mira Nair's The MIGRATION.
http://www.canadiandesi.com/reviews.php?MID=39
http://www.apunkachoice.com/scoop/bollywood/20070326-2.html
http://www.indiaglitz.com/channels/hindi/article/35708.html
Many small time gay movies are also hitting the screen, like Bomgay, Milind Soman made me gay and The Pink Mirror
http://entertainment.oneindia.in/bollywood/features/milind-soman-made-me-gay-170907.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkfR5KVu818&feature=related
How does it feel to play gay roles and how do you look at gays?? Bollywood actors and actresses respond differently.
http://in.movies.yahoo.com/news-detail/14304/Many-Bollywood-actors-willing-embrace-gay-roles.html
http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/msg12862.html
And the only one out and about is none other the very queen Bobby Darling. She must be rolling in and out of the bollywood beds with no competition..are u listening Trollywood queens?
http://www.aol.in/bollywood/story/2008032400539012000002/index.html
http://entertainment.oneindia.in/bollywood/gupshup/bobby-darling-sexual-harrassment-180707.html
In this gay race, Bollywood actresses are not far behind with Rekha topping the list. She may have refused Deepa Mehta's FIRE as She wouldn't kiss Nandita das in a lesbian way (though Shabana could), she sure has a dyke of asecretary tagged with her in every function. Do you think people are blind Miss Rekha?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQH0Jn_pkUc
If Isha Koppikar and Amrita Arora's kiss in GIRLFRIEND burned the screen, wait till you watch Chriselle Almeida smooch Kelli Holsopple in Manan Katohora's WHEN KIRAN MET KAREN
http://video.aol.com/video-detail/when-kiran-met-karen-teaser-1/4115569666
And now time for some laughs:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=UX2m2-NsC_Y
PS: Hope you enjoyed GAY BOLLYWOOD ! It is written for fun reading only and is not intended to offend anyone.
By Research Reporter: Natasha Rai / Gayfare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: NATASHA
Supermodel turned struggling actor of Kamasutra condom fame, hunky Marc Robisnson exposes the "A" list of gay celebrities of Bollywood who for the sake of name and fame ask and give sexual favors. King Khan topping the list followed by names like Sanjay Leela Bhansali, Karan Johar, Manish Malhotra, Mahesh Manjrekar, Ashish Choudhary...the list is endless. Sonu Nigham accuses journalist Subash K Jha for sexual molestation and Sahil Khan thinks he is thegay idol. Thank God our Trollywood is safe and supportive.
http://www.gaybombay.org/reading/bollywood.htm
http://indiaindeedindepth.blogspot.com/2007/10/bollywoods-gay-casting-couch-is-out-of.html
Shahrukh Khan's bisexuality and romance with Karan Johar is well known and so is Saif Ali Khan's effeminate proved by his ladies, mard Amrita Singh, italian transvestite Rosa and boyish size 0 Kareena. Salman Khan's true love is not Aishwarya or Katrina but dancer Manoj from Canada. Looks like the Khans have the thing for it.
http://www.desifans.com/news/20061386
http://bollywoodwatch.blogspot.com/search/label/effeminate
http://www.indianpad.com/story/16493
Akshay Kumar to Abhisek Bachchan to newcomer Ranbir Kapoor has been the gay icon with Bachchan Junior being happy with this honour and Ranbir Kapoor not too comfortable with it. But hey doesn't it run in Kapoor family? Ask about Shashi Kapoor and Rishi Kapoor's fascination for skirts.
http://www.apunkachoice.com/scoop/bollywood/20071008-4.html
Gay culture has hit Bollywood big time with most of the directors wanting to cast top stars as gay characters in their movies with Madhur Bhandarkar shooting scandalous gay fellatio in PAGE 3 to casting Harsh Chaya as gay designer in FASHION luring after male body. Cutie Sanjay Suri playing gay in MY BROTHER NIKHIL to Baddy Irfan Khan wanting gay sex in Mira Nair's The MIGRATION.
http://www.canadiandesi.com/reviews.php?MID=39
http://www.apunkachoice.com/scoop/bollywood/20070326-2.html
http://www.indiaglitz.com/channels/hindi/article/35708.html
Many small time gay movies are also hitting the screen, like Bomgay, Milind Soman made me gay and The Pink Mirror
http://entertainment.oneindia.in/bollywood/features/milind-soman-made-me-gay-170907.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkfR5KVu818&feature=related
How does it feel to play gay roles and how do you look at gays?? Bollywood actors and actresses respond differently.
http://in.movies.yahoo.com/news-detail/14304/Many-Bollywood-actors-willing-embrace-gay-roles.html
http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/msg12862.html
And the only one out and about is none other the very queen Bobby Darling. She must be rolling in and out of the bollywood beds with no competition..are u listening Trollywood queens?
http://www.aol.in/bollywood/story/2008032400539012000002/index.html
http://entertainment.oneindia.in/bollywood/gupshup/bobby-darling-sexual-harrassment-180707.html
In this gay race, Bollywood actresses are not far behind with Rekha topping the list. She may have refused Deepa Mehta's FIRE as She wouldn't kiss Nandita das in a lesbian way (though Shabana could), she sure has a dyke of asecretary tagged with her in every function. Do you think people are blind Miss Rekha?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQH0Jn_pkUc
If Isha Koppikar and Amrita Arora's kiss in GIRLFRIEND burned the screen, wait till you watch Chriselle Almeida smooch Kelli Holsopple in Manan Katohora's WHEN KIRAN MET KAREN
http://video.aol.com/video-detail/when-kiran-met-karen-teaser-1/4115569666
And now time for some laughs:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=UX2m2-NsC_Y
PS: Hope you enjoyed GAY BOLLYWOOD ! It is written for fun reading only and is not intended to offend anyone.
Tuesday
Trollywood Responds to Richa's Guilty Plea
Irvine, California on Tuesday, September 23, 2008
By Senior Editor: Kanti R. Shah / Gayfare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: KANTI
Several A-list Trollywood celebrities have spoken out against Richa. Veteran film maker AL Bhansali said "I am happy that Richa has decided to cooperate with authorities instead of fighting the inevitable. I can only hope that she has learned her lesson but given her past, I don't think anyone should trust her. This is an extremely dangerous woman who is capable of anything." Rajiv Malhotra echoed the words of his producer lashing out at Richa - "She tried to negatively influence several people close to me and I have absolutely no sympathy for her. I hope she is deported and locked up in her native country." Saagar and Monisha Malhotra expressed relief - "we are very encouraged by the first good decision Richa has made in a long time. We sincerely hope this is the first of many to come and that her family will be able to put this behind them soon." Top actress Natasha Rai said that "its good that she pleaded guilty otherwise she would have wasted lots of family and federal time and funds in court. Also by pleading guilty her hearing could be less severe. So its a smart decision on her part. I just hope ultimately she is deported to her village and not to Vancouver!" Meanwhile ace Trollywood director Kanti R Shah surprised us with his comments - "I can't wait to see the end of this drama. I have already started scripting my next film based on this true story. It will be titled 'Khal Naika.' I am planning to approach some top actresses like Malati Chopra and Natasha Rai for the title role. The film will feature the first rape of its kind in the history of cinema - woman raping a man!"
We encourage our readers to respond as well!
By Senior Editor: Kanti R. Shah / Gayfare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: KANTI
Several A-list Trollywood celebrities have spoken out against Richa. Veteran film maker AL Bhansali said "I am happy that Richa has decided to cooperate with authorities instead of fighting the inevitable. I can only hope that she has learned her lesson but given her past, I don't think anyone should trust her. This is an extremely dangerous woman who is capable of anything." Rajiv Malhotra echoed the words of his producer lashing out at Richa - "She tried to negatively influence several people close to me and I have absolutely no sympathy for her. I hope she is deported and locked up in her native country." Saagar and Monisha Malhotra expressed relief - "we are very encouraged by the first good decision Richa has made in a long time. We sincerely hope this is the first of many to come and that her family will be able to put this behind them soon." Top actress Natasha Rai said that "its good that she pleaded guilty otherwise she would have wasted lots of family and federal time and funds in court. Also by pleading guilty her hearing could be less severe. So its a smart decision on her part. I just hope ultimately she is deported to her village and not to Vancouver!" Meanwhile ace Trollywood director Kanti R Shah surprised us with his comments - "I can't wait to see the end of this drama. I have already started scripting my next film based on this true story. It will be titled 'Khal Naika.' I am planning to approach some top actresses like Malati Chopra and Natasha Rai for the title role. The film will feature the first rape of its kind in the history of cinema - woman raping a man!"
We encourage our readers to respond as well!
Monday
BREAKING NEWS: RICHA TO PLEAD GUILTY!
Dallas, Texas on Monday, September 22, 2008
By Crime Reporter: Malati Chopra / Gayfare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: MALATI
At Gayfare Online, we pride ourselves of bringing you REAL & breaking unbiased Trollywood crime news - as they happen. We have breaking news regarding veteran Trollywood actress Richa Koppikar’s troubles with the law. Late last week Richa’s lawyers reached a plea bargain agreement with federal prosecutors. Per the agreement, Richa has agreed to appear before an immigration judge next week and to plead GUILTY! Further, Richa has also agreed to remain detained until her hearing later this week. In return, federal prosecutors agreed to drop 2 charges of theft against her. Our source informed us, on condition of anonymity that “the nature of her crime was such that she was not directly involved but always indirectly. As such, investigators had no substantial evidence linking her directly to the crime. So, federal prosecutors are very enthusiastic about this development – that she has agreed to plead “guilty” before an immigration judge. There are strict laws regarding time limit for holding inmates without evidence. So, prosecutors were worried that they would have to release Richa and she would be on the run again. But this plea bargain agreement is considered a major break for them because she has agreed to remain detained until her hearing – later this week.” Our source also added that “if she had pleaded NOT GUILTY, the case could have gone on for years costing tax payers thousands of dollars in legal fees and hundreds of hours for law enforcement.”
We asked our source - So why did she plead guilty? “There could be several reasons. Prosecutors may have led her to believe that they had concrete evidence against her and told her that if she was ‘found guilty’, she’d be put behind bars for years. So, she might have become scared and 'pleaded guilty' in order to get a less severe sentence. Also, the trauma of being behind bars and wanting the process to come to an end might have contributed to her decision to ‘plead guilty’ and receive a quick hearing. Many people also plead guilty because they don’t want to tarnish their family reputation by dragging the case on for years.”
We inquired as to what would be the next step in this process? “Well, she is pleading guilty to breaking the laws of this country so it is almost certain that she will be found deportable and inadmissible to the United States – thanks to the new fingerprint technology. She may never step into this country again! She might also be sued by different companies in a civil court – depending on the outcome of the court’s decision.”
We will continue our investigation and bring you further information and reaction from the Trollywood community.
By Crime Reporter: Malati Chopra / Gayfare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: MALATI
At Gayfare Online, we pride ourselves of bringing you REAL & breaking unbiased Trollywood crime news - as they happen. We have breaking news regarding veteran Trollywood actress Richa Koppikar’s troubles with the law. Late last week Richa’s lawyers reached a plea bargain agreement with federal prosecutors. Per the agreement, Richa has agreed to appear before an immigration judge next week and to plead GUILTY! Further, Richa has also agreed to remain detained until her hearing later this week. In return, federal prosecutors agreed to drop 2 charges of theft against her. Our source informed us, on condition of anonymity that “the nature of her crime was such that she was not directly involved but always indirectly. As such, investigators had no substantial evidence linking her directly to the crime. So, federal prosecutors are very enthusiastic about this development – that she has agreed to plead “guilty” before an immigration judge. There are strict laws regarding time limit for holding inmates without evidence. So, prosecutors were worried that they would have to release Richa and she would be on the run again. But this plea bargain agreement is considered a major break for them because she has agreed to remain detained until her hearing – later this week.” Our source also added that “if she had pleaded NOT GUILTY, the case could have gone on for years costing tax payers thousands of dollars in legal fees and hundreds of hours for law enforcement.”
We asked our source - So why did she plead guilty? “There could be several reasons. Prosecutors may have led her to believe that they had concrete evidence against her and told her that if she was ‘found guilty’, she’d be put behind bars for years. So, she might have become scared and 'pleaded guilty' in order to get a less severe sentence. Also, the trauma of being behind bars and wanting the process to come to an end might have contributed to her decision to ‘plead guilty’ and receive a quick hearing. Many people also plead guilty because they don’t want to tarnish their family reputation by dragging the case on for years.”
We inquired as to what would be the next step in this process? “Well, she is pleading guilty to breaking the laws of this country so it is almost certain that she will be found deportable and inadmissible to the United States – thanks to the new fingerprint technology. She may never step into this country again! She might also be sued by different companies in a civil court – depending on the outcome of the court’s decision.”
We will continue our investigation and bring you further information and reaction from the Trollywood community.
Sunday
Top Trollywood Films!
Vancouver, Canada on Sunday, September 21, 2008
By Research Reporter: Natasha Rai / Gayfare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: NATASHA
I've compiled a list of Trolly movies that has hit the screens internationally for the readers of Gayfare Online. Some of these movies are full feature and others short documentaries, however, they project the lifestyle, culture and drama of indian gay men in India and abroad.
1. My Beautiful Laundrette (1985)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0091578/
2. The Buddha of Suburbia (1993)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0105963/
3. Fire (1996)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0116308/
4. Bomgay (1996)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0115603/
5. A Mermaid Called Aida (1996)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0117027/
6. Surviving Sabu (1998)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0402513/
7. East is East (1999)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0166175/
8. Stag (2001)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0320525/
9. Mango Souffle (2002)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0355740/
10. The pink Mirror (2003)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0386499/
11. Kal Ho Naa Ho (2003)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0347304/
12. Touch of Pink (2004)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0374277/
13. Everything (2004)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0417656/
14. My Brother Nikhil (2005)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0419992/
15. Chicken Tikka Masala (2005)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0449000/
16. Yours Emotionally! (2006)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0818705/
17. Milind Soman Made Me Gay (2007)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1123397/
18. Kali Ma (2007)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1015994/
19. Honeymoon Travels Pvt. Ltd. (2007)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0808306/
20. Migration (2007)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1043717/
21. Rex vs. Singh (2008)
http://therunagatesclub.blogspot.com/200....-this-blog.html
Two short movies which are my favorites, very real and which can easily relate
to day to day lives of desi gay men and trannies are The Pink Mirror and Yours
Emotionally, both being directed by Sridhar Rangayan and being taboo with indian
sensors due to its social and sexual content. However, these short flicks have
been nominated and awarded various international film awards.
You can buy them or view their synopsis and trailer on wilkipedia.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Pink_Mirror
http://www.multivisionnaire.com/mv_film_images/PinkMirror_trailer_sm.mov
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yours_Emotionally
http://www.waterbearerfilms.com/images/yours_emotionally.mov
I have included here a list of short films from film festivals from
various internationaly acclaimed filmmakers many of them are very
gay themed. you can click on each to watch synopsis and trailer of that film.
http://multivisionnaire.com/films.php
Hope you enjoy them and refresh if you have already watched them.
Love,
Natasha
By Research Reporter: Natasha Rai / Gayfare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: NATASHA
I've compiled a list of Trolly movies that has hit the screens internationally for the readers of Gayfare Online. Some of these movies are full feature and others short documentaries, however, they project the lifestyle, culture and drama of indian gay men in India and abroad.
1. My Beautiful Laundrette (1985)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0091578/
2. The Buddha of Suburbia (1993)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0105963/
3. Fire (1996)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0116308/
4. Bomgay (1996)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0115603/
5. A Mermaid Called Aida (1996)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0117027/
6. Surviving Sabu (1998)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0402513/
7. East is East (1999)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0166175/
8. Stag (2001)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0320525/
9. Mango Souffle (2002)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0355740/
10. The pink Mirror (2003)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0386499/
11. Kal Ho Naa Ho (2003)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0347304/
12. Touch of Pink (2004)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0374277/
13. Everything (2004)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0417656/
14. My Brother Nikhil (2005)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0419992/
15. Chicken Tikka Masala (2005)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0449000/
16. Yours Emotionally! (2006)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0818705/
17. Milind Soman Made Me Gay (2007)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1123397/
18. Kali Ma (2007)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1015994/
19. Honeymoon Travels Pvt. Ltd. (2007)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0808306/
20. Migration (2007)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1043717/
21. Rex vs. Singh (2008)
http://therunagatesclub.blogspot.com/200....-this-blog.html
Two short movies which are my favorites, very real and which can easily relate
to day to day lives of desi gay men and trannies are The Pink Mirror and Yours
Emotionally, both being directed by Sridhar Rangayan and being taboo with indian
sensors due to its social and sexual content. However, these short flicks have
been nominated and awarded various international film awards.
You can buy them or view their synopsis and trailer on wilkipedia.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Pink_Mirror
http://www.multivisionnaire.com/mv_film_images/PinkMirror_trailer_sm.mov
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yours_Emotionally
http://www.waterbearerfilms.com/images/yours_emotionally.mov
I have included here a list of short films from film festivals from
various internationaly acclaimed filmmakers many of them are very
gay themed. you can click on each to watch synopsis and trailer of that film.
http://multivisionnaire.com/films.php
Hope you enjoy them and refresh if you have already watched them.
Love,
Natasha
Thursday
Saagar speaks his heart out...
Laguna Beach, California on Tuesday, September 17, 2008
By Senior Editor: Kanti R. Shah / Gayfare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: KANTI
For my first assignment as reporter for Gayfare, I wanted to interview someone that had never been interviewed before. The first person that came to my mind was hunky Saagar from the first family of Trollywood. My producers immediately dismissed the idea as "impossible - Saagar would never agree to an interview." However, this just made my task even more challenging!
After numerous calls and excuses, I am finally sitting here in a coffee shop at Laguna Beach with Saagar Malhotra, fresh after a much deserved honeymoon in Italy & Switzerland.
Kanti: So, I finally have you - the elusive Saagar Malhotra sitting in front of me, knowing that this will be a published interview for Gayfare Times. You do know that "no comments" is not an option right?
Saagar: (laughs) Yes I do - although I'm still not sure I'll be able to offer you anything exciting. I'm a pretty laid back and normal person with no drama whatsoever. I honestly don't think anyone would want to read what I have to say. I am considered to be a boring person by most people.
Kanti: I'll be the judge of that. But I'd like to start off with a light question. How was your honeymoon?
Saagar: Overall I think it was very nice to show Monisha around in Lausanne, Geneva and other cities that are close to my heart because I spent an important part of my life there. Venice was even more beautiful than ever. It's incredible because while I built memories in these cities, I had always wanted to share it with my significant other. And now I can say that I have! (smiles). We did run into some trouble due to strikes on our way from Venice to Geneva but like I said, overall it went very well.
Kanti: Before I even ask this question, I am reminded of the enormous similarities between your family and the Bachchan family of Bollywood. While Amitabh had a soul mate in Rekha, he was forced to marry a girl his family approved of - Jaya Bahaduri. Even Abhishek found his soul-mate and was engaged to her but had to settle for Aishwarya because of his parent's objection to Karisma. Can I ask you about your true love…your soul mate?
Saagar: No you cannot (both burst out laughing). But in all honesty I acknowledge that I have a past like everyone else and I was in love. It would be disrespectful to her and to Monisha for me to give out the name because I wouldn't want to hurt that person in any way. What we shared was an unexplainable, strong and pure bond that no one else can understand. It was not sexual at all because we didn't have any "physical" intimacy. But it was intimate - in every sense of the word. I don't want to discuss what caused the rift between us because it is unimportant. I have chosen to only remember the positive aspects of my relationship with her. She knows that I have nothing but good memories, warm wishes and prayers for her. Love is not about getting what you want and not all love stories have a happy ending. Love is about being happy for others and I sincerely pray for her happiness and well being.
Kanti: But what if this happiness comes in the form of another man? Are you not jealous?
Saagar: Absolutely not. I have no right to be jealous or possessive - I have lost that right. If happiness came to her in the form of another man, I'd be genuinely happy for her. Why should she not move on and be happy? I am not a chauvinist.
Kanti: Tell us why you picked Monisha?
Saagar: I don't go for external beauty. For me to have anything with someone, we have to click emotionally. Monisha has a very vibrant yet innocent personality. She is confident yet shy and just so lovable. She gets easily brain washed by people but has a very deep sense of morality that keeps her in check. She says that I am good for her but I think she's been great for me as well.
Kanti: Why was the wedding so secretive? And why are you not sharing it with your Trollywood fans?
Saagar: There's no record to begin with. We met as friends and I expressed a desire to take it to the next level but she politely declined due to conflict of interest. I respect her loyalty and strong character and we are still cordial to one another. I even invited her to my wedding but I understand that she was unable to make it. I disagree that I am a playboy – that title should be reserved for Niraj. I waited almost 2 years as a single man before approaching Malati or Monisha. I am fiercely loyal and a one-woman man. I don't believe in playing with people's feelings because what goes around always comes around.
Kanti: Tell us about your favorite Trollywood film?
Saagar: Even though I was made to look like a paralyzed old man, I loved KANK the most. There was an incredible amount of honesty in that film and I think each character fitted into their roles perfectly. I think in real life my character is very similar to that of Shahrukh Khan in this film. I am a very low-key happy go lucky person who is not terribly ambitious or needy.
Kanti: Tell us about your religious beliefs. We have not heard about it.
Saagar: My religion is very sacred and it is the one aspect of my life that I choose to keep private or else I would be enforcing my beliefs on others. All I can say is that I have equal respect for all – no matter what religion they follow in their private lives.
Kanti: What made you convert from 99% straight to 99% gay?
Saagar: I can't believe you're asking me such private questions! (laughs) But seriously, the entire straight/gay thing is over-rated. For me it was more important to find the right "person," rather than the right "man" or "woman." If that doesn't make any sense to you then you're clearly not bisexual! (laughs)
Kanti: Tell me a bit about your family?
Saagar: Family is the most important thing in my life. Being an older brother, I am very protective about my family. I can tell you that the easiest way to annoy me is to try to harm my family in any way. My protective nature will not allow me to let anyone try to harm my family or their reputation. There was a time in the past when my parents were going through a difficult time and since then I have always treated Rajiv more like my son than brother. I feel guilty if I am unable to fulfill his desires. Yet, being an older brother it is also my responsibility to lead Rajiv and Malini in the right direction. I am blessed to have a brother and sister in-law who are incredibly kind and respectful towards me and my parents. Due to their conservative values, my parents obviously did not start off on the right foot with Malini. But over time she has won their hearts and completely amazed us with her love and unwavering loyalty towards our family. Today I can say that while we were lucky to be born into the Malhotra family, Malini has truly earned the Malhotra name. My parents love and affection for Malini is completely unbelievable and it goes back to what I was saying about gay/straight thing being over-rated. At the end of the day we all love and respect good "people."
Kanti: Isn't your separate post-marriage living arrangement going to divide the family?
Saagar: Not at all. In fact our family is finally coming together! My parents are in the process of immigrating to Canada and they will be living with Rajiv and Malini at our home in West Vancouver. Monisha and I will need to stay a bit longer in the States while I complete my obligation to my company. But I've taken a transfer to the San Francisco Bay area so that we will be very close to Monisha's and my family in the west coast. In about a year, our entire family will finally come together under the same roof in Vancouver and I couldn't be happier.
Kanti: I have to say that this has been a very honest yet interesting interview and I've thoroughly enjoyed it. For the record, you're not as boring as you might think. Now I'd like some words of wisdom for your fans and well wishers?
Saagar: To everyone that I've been fortunate enough to know - in person or otherwise. I'd like to wish each one of you a world of happiness. Try to stay away from negativity and focus on the positive. You are capable of so much but you'll never realize this unless you focus on the positive. Live each day as though it is your last. And don't forget to smile - not just at at others but yourself as well. Take care everyone!
By Senior Editor: Kanti R. Shah / Gayfare Online
gayfareonline@gmail.com Subject: KANTI
For my first assignment as reporter for Gayfare, I wanted to interview someone that had never been interviewed before. The first person that came to my mind was hunky Saagar from the first family of Trollywood. My producers immediately dismissed the idea as "impossible - Saagar would never agree to an interview." However, this just made my task even more challenging!
After numerous calls and excuses, I am finally sitting here in a coffee shop at Laguna Beach with Saagar Malhotra, fresh after a much deserved honeymoon in Italy & Switzerland.
Kanti: So, I finally have you - the elusive Saagar Malhotra sitting in front of me, knowing that this will be a published interview for Gayfare Times. You do know that "no comments" is not an option right?
Saagar: (laughs) Yes I do - although I'm still not sure I'll be able to offer you anything exciting. I'm a pretty laid back and normal person with no drama whatsoever. I honestly don't think anyone would want to read what I have to say. I am considered to be a boring person by most people.
Kanti: I'll be the judge of that. But I'd like to start off with a light question. How was your honeymoon?
Saagar: Overall I think it was very nice to show Monisha around in Lausanne, Geneva and other cities that are close to my heart because I spent an important part of my life there. Venice was even more beautiful than ever. It's incredible because while I built memories in these cities, I had always wanted to share it with my significant other. And now I can say that I have! (smiles). We did run into some trouble due to strikes on our way from Venice to Geneva but like I said, overall it went very well.
Kanti: Before I even ask this question, I am reminded of the enormous similarities between your family and the Bachchan family of Bollywood. While Amitabh had a soul mate in Rekha, he was forced to marry a girl his family approved of - Jaya Bahaduri. Even Abhishek found his soul-mate and was engaged to her but had to settle for Aishwarya because of his parent's objection to Karisma. Can I ask you about your true love…your soul mate?
Saagar: No you cannot (both burst out laughing). But in all honesty I acknowledge that I have a past like everyone else and I was in love. It would be disrespectful to her and to Monisha for me to give out the name because I wouldn't want to hurt that person in any way. What we shared was an unexplainable, strong and pure bond that no one else can understand. It was not sexual at all because we didn't have any "physical" intimacy. But it was intimate - in every sense of the word. I don't want to discuss what caused the rift between us because it is unimportant. I have chosen to only remember the positive aspects of my relationship with her. She knows that I have nothing but good memories, warm wishes and prayers for her. Love is not about getting what you want and not all love stories have a happy ending. Love is about being happy for others and I sincerely pray for her happiness and well being.
Kanti: But what if this happiness comes in the form of another man? Are you not jealous?
Saagar: Absolutely not. I have no right to be jealous or possessive - I have lost that right. If happiness came to her in the form of another man, I'd be genuinely happy for her. Why should she not move on and be happy? I am not a chauvinist.
Kanti: Tell us why you picked Monisha?
Saagar: I don't go for external beauty. For me to have anything with someone, we have to click emotionally. Monisha has a very vibrant yet innocent personality. She is confident yet shy and just so lovable. She gets easily brain washed by people but has a very deep sense of morality that keeps her in check. She says that I am good for her but I think she's been great for me as well.
Kanti: Why was the wedding so secretive? And why are you not sharing it with your Trollywood fans?
Saagar: Due to the spontaneous nature of the wedding, we did not make any big announcements. I proposed to Monisha about a week before our wedding date - August 30. But we did have a pretty big wedding, considering the circumstances. All our near and dear ones were either in attendance or had a chance to meet with us in person. Several members of our extended family back home are very conservative and would be uncomfortable with gay marriage. While our family completely disagrees with their conservative views, we respect their feelings. Out of consideration for them, it was decided that photography would not be permitted by guests. We did have a professional photographer shoot pictures for our personal records that we would like to keep strictly personal.
Kanti: Are you aware that someone managed to take a few pictures of your wedding with their camera phone and can easily make it public?
Saagar: Your producer did inform me that one of our guests managed to take a couple of pictures with their phone and is trying to sell it to Gayfare. This is in complete violation of our right of privacy. I understand that the freedom of press applies to Gayfare. But I want that person to know that if those pictures are published, we will pursue all legal options to bring him or her to justice. Believe me, they will be paying more in court and other legal fees than they can ever hope to make through the press.
Kanti: Contrary to your shy image, you were arguably the biggest playboy of Trollywood, having romanced several leading ladies. Please set the record straight regarding your brief fling with Malati Chopra?Saagar: There's no record to begin with. We met as friends and I expressed a desire to take it to the next level but she politely declined due to conflict of interest. I respect her loyalty and strong character and we are still cordial to one another. I even invited her to my wedding but I understand that she was unable to make it. I disagree that I am a playboy – that title should be reserved for Niraj. I waited almost 2 years as a single man before approaching Malati or Monisha. I am fiercely loyal and a one-woman man. I don't believe in playing with people's feelings because what goes around always comes around.
Kanti: Tell us about your favorite Trollywood film?
Saagar: Even though I was made to look like a paralyzed old man, I loved KANK the most. There was an incredible amount of honesty in that film and I think each character fitted into their roles perfectly. I think in real life my character is very similar to that of Shahrukh Khan in this film. I am a very low-key happy go lucky person who is not terribly ambitious or needy.
Kanti: Tell us about your religious beliefs. We have not heard about it.
Saagar: My religion is very sacred and it is the one aspect of my life that I choose to keep private or else I would be enforcing my beliefs on others. All I can say is that I have equal respect for all – no matter what religion they follow in their private lives.
Kanti: What made you convert from 99% straight to 99% gay?
Saagar: I can't believe you're asking me such private questions! (laughs) But seriously, the entire straight/gay thing is over-rated. For me it was more important to find the right "person," rather than the right "man" or "woman." If that doesn't make any sense to you then you're clearly not bisexual! (laughs)
Kanti: Tell me a bit about your family?
Saagar: Family is the most important thing in my life. Being an older brother, I am very protective about my family. I can tell you that the easiest way to annoy me is to try to harm my family in any way. My protective nature will not allow me to let anyone try to harm my family or their reputation. There was a time in the past when my parents were going through a difficult time and since then I have always treated Rajiv more like my son than brother. I feel guilty if I am unable to fulfill his desires. Yet, being an older brother it is also my responsibility to lead Rajiv and Malini in the right direction. I am blessed to have a brother and sister in-law who are incredibly kind and respectful towards me and my parents. Due to their conservative values, my parents obviously did not start off on the right foot with Malini. But over time she has won their hearts and completely amazed us with her love and unwavering loyalty towards our family. Today I can say that while we were lucky to be born into the Malhotra family, Malini has truly earned the Malhotra name. My parents love and affection for Malini is completely unbelievable and it goes back to what I was saying about gay/straight thing being over-rated. At the end of the day we all love and respect good "people."
Kanti: Isn't your separate post-marriage living arrangement going to divide the family?
Saagar: Not at all. In fact our family is finally coming together! My parents are in the process of immigrating to Canada and they will be living with Rajiv and Malini at our home in West Vancouver. Monisha and I will need to stay a bit longer in the States while I complete my obligation to my company. But I've taken a transfer to the San Francisco Bay area so that we will be very close to Monisha's and my family in the west coast. In about a year, our entire family will finally come together under the same roof in Vancouver and I couldn't be happier.
Kanti: I have to say that this has been a very honest yet interesting interview and I've thoroughly enjoyed it. For the record, you're not as boring as you might think. Now I'd like some words of wisdom for your fans and well wishers?
Saagar: To everyone that I've been fortunate enough to know - in person or otherwise. I'd like to wish each one of you a world of happiness. Try to stay away from negativity and focus on the positive. You are capable of so much but you'll never realize this unless you focus on the positive. Live each day as though it is your last. And don't forget to smile - not just at at others but yourself as well. Take care everyone!
Monday
Trollywood Celebs Share Beauty Tips
We asked some top Trollywood actresses the question - "what is the secret of your beauty?"
Malati Chopra - Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. I don't use any make-up since I am a very normal professional in my everyday life. However, I would highly recommend a tan for my Trollywood contemporaries since all the bleaching has left some of them looking like a bad mix of Chinese woman and South Indian man!
Malini Nanku Malhotra - As you know, I do not like to praise myself. But I'd like to say a big thank you to all my fans that spoke for me when they voted me the the most beautiful woman in Trollywood. I am humbled by your support and compliments. I personally believe that external beauty begins with the internal. In order to keep my skin glowing and maintain a petite size zero, I consume zero complex carbs, sugars and trans fat. I eat healthy portions of fiber, high protein and polysaturated fats like salmon and soy. My fitness instructor also puts me through a rigorous workout schedule that includes high intensity aerobics and power yoga. I am blessed to have naturally strong, long and shiny hair but I sympathize with those suffering from hairloss, belly or even bad features like nose. While we must look our best in the beauty business, it is more important to be real and compassionate with others that are not so fortunate.
Deepika Parajuli - I use pastel colors to come across looking natural and not over-done. I've noticed how some T-girls look very loud and have made an effort to not look like them. Natasha and Malini are among my favorites and I draw my inspiration from them. I love how Natasha dresses appropriately for every film and I think she is very talented. As for Malini, she seems to be getting younger with every film and I'd kill to look like her!
Natasha Koirala - I really think beauty lies in the eyes of beholder. I could be beautiful diva to some and just plain jane to others. However, I credit my complexion to Elizabeth Arden's Prevage line and lots of sunscreen, and my hair to pureology line of hair products. Once in a while, I pamper myself in a beauty spa. I also exercise and drink lots of water, eat low carb diet and try to live a healthylifestyle and that also helps my looks.
Monisha B. Malhotra - To be honest I'm not very good with make-up so usually all I wear is foundation and lipstick. I have my native country to thank for my flawless complexion. My only beauty secret would be my mother in-law who gives me tons of diet and make-up tips. The way she has groomed my bhabi in beauty, style and eticasy is mind blowing. I would be lucky If I ever come close to looking as good as she does.
Malati Chopra - Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. I don't use any make-up since I am a very normal professional in my everyday life. However, I would highly recommend a tan for my Trollywood contemporaries since all the bleaching has left some of them looking like a bad mix of Chinese woman and South Indian man!
Malini Nanku Malhotra - As you know, I do not like to praise myself. But I'd like to say a big thank you to all my fans that spoke for me when they voted me the the most beautiful woman in Trollywood. I am humbled by your support and compliments. I personally believe that external beauty begins with the internal. In order to keep my skin glowing and maintain a petite size zero, I consume zero complex carbs, sugars and trans fat. I eat healthy portions of fiber, high protein and polysaturated fats like salmon and soy. My fitness instructor also puts me through a rigorous workout schedule that includes high intensity aerobics and power yoga. I am blessed to have naturally strong, long and shiny hair but I sympathize with those suffering from hairloss, belly or even bad features like nose. While we must look our best in the beauty business, it is more important to be real and compassionate with others that are not so fortunate.
Deepika Parajuli - I use pastel colors to come across looking natural and not over-done. I've noticed how some T-girls look very loud and have made an effort to not look like them. Natasha and Malini are among my favorites and I draw my inspiration from them. I love how Natasha dresses appropriately for every film and I think she is very talented. As for Malini, she seems to be getting younger with every film and I'd kill to look like her!
Natasha Koirala - I really think beauty lies in the eyes of beholder. I could be beautiful diva to some and just plain jane to others. However, I credit my complexion to Elizabeth Arden's Prevage line and lots of sunscreen, and my hair to pureology line of hair products. Once in a while, I pamper myself in a beauty spa. I also exercise and drink lots of water, eat low carb diet and try to live a healthylifestyle and that also helps my looks.
Monisha B. Malhotra - To be honest I'm not very good with make-up so usually all I wear is foundation and lipstick. I have my native country to thank for my flawless complexion. My only beauty secret would be my mother in-law who gives me tons of diet and make-up tips. The way she has groomed my bhabi in beauty, style and eticasy is mind blowing. I would be lucky If I ever come close to looking as good as she does.
Friday
Celebrities Lash Out at Richa Koppikar
Gayfare Online was first to bring you the breaking news of veteran Trollywood actress Richa Koppikar being held by federal authorities. We now have confirmation from several reliable sources that Richa is being held for two felony counts of theft. If convicted, she faces up to ten years in jail, fines up to $30,000 and possibly both. Federal prosecuters are working deligently in an attempt to bring her to justice. We are told that the process could take several days.
Meanwhile The Trollywood community has spoken out against Richa. Saagar and Monisha Malhotra issued a statement from their honeymoon in Venice saying that "It is a sad day when a young girl like Richa has made the choice to destroy her future and humiliate her family's name, all for the sake of an illegal scam. While we hope that she is punished for her crimes, we pray that her family will find the strength to deal with this horrifying situation." Rajiv and Malini Malhotra also responded from Horseshoe Bay saying that "this incident is an important reminder as to why the Malhotras have always stayed away from evil people. We want to assure everyone that no member of our family has any ties with this troubled woman. Yet, we reserve the right to publish concrete evidence we have acquired of Richa's association with her evil friend or friends who are now pretending to be against her. Wait and watch as we believe that a picture speaks a thousand words!" Malati Chopra lashed out from Alaska saying "I applaud the person or people responsible for exposing this evil woman by notifying law enforcement. She will reap exactly what she sowed." Amrita has some harsh words for Richa as well - "I have been waiting for this day for years. My prayers have been answered and I can now go anywhere without worry or care!" Popular actress Natasha Rai responded from Vancouver stating that "I totally believe in KARMA and no matter how hard you try or fool people with all the lies of the world, one day the Karma will get you. I am a strong believer in this saying from the Holy Gita - 'Its a Sin to do wrong but its a greater sin to let someone do wrong.' Richa has done both and now she is paying the price. My concern is now who is the next in this SILSILA of Scam? Wait and watch as the Trollywood's RACE continues."
Our investigation and reaction from the Trollywood community will continue.
Meanwhile The Trollywood community has spoken out against Richa. Saagar and Monisha Malhotra issued a statement from their honeymoon in Venice saying that "It is a sad day when a young girl like Richa has made the choice to destroy her future and humiliate her family's name, all for the sake of an illegal scam. While we hope that she is punished for her crimes, we pray that her family will find the strength to deal with this horrifying situation." Rajiv and Malini Malhotra also responded from Horseshoe Bay saying that "this incident is an important reminder as to why the Malhotras have always stayed away from evil people. We want to assure everyone that no member of our family has any ties with this troubled woman. Yet, we reserve the right to publish concrete evidence we have acquired of Richa's association with her evil friend or friends who are now pretending to be against her. Wait and watch as we believe that a picture speaks a thousand words!" Malati Chopra lashed out from Alaska saying "I applaud the person or people responsible for exposing this evil woman by notifying law enforcement. She will reap exactly what she sowed." Amrita has some harsh words for Richa as well - "I have been waiting for this day for years. My prayers have been answered and I can now go anywhere without worry or care!" Popular actress Natasha Rai responded from Vancouver stating that "I totally believe in KARMA and no matter how hard you try or fool people with all the lies of the world, one day the Karma will get you. I am a strong believer in this saying from the Holy Gita - 'Its a Sin to do wrong but its a greater sin to let someone do wrong.' Richa has done both and now she is paying the price. My concern is now who is the next in this SILSILA of Scam? Wait and watch as the Trollywood's RACE continues."
Our investigation and reaction from the Trollywood community will continue.
Thursday
TROLLYWOOD VETERAN RICHA FACES 10 YEARS
At Gayfare Online, we pride ourselves with bringing you REAL & breaking unbiased Trollywood celebrity news as they happen. Our reliable sources have confirmed that veteran Trollywood actress Richa Koppikar is currently being held by federal authorities. True to her vamp image in several Trollywood films including the recent hit Don, Richa is being held for two felony counts of theft. If convicted, she faces up to ten years in jail, fines up to $30,000 and possibly both.
The Trollywood community has not been supportive of Richa. The Malhotra family refused to comment on the developments. While Saagar and Monisha Malhotra could not be reached, Malini Malhotra maintained that "we were completely unaware of this and have no comment for Gayfare at this time." Others like Malati Chopra lashed out saying "I applaud the person or people responsible for exposing this evil woman by notifying law enforcement. She will reap exactly what she sowed." Amrita has some harsh words for Richa as well - "I have been waiting for this day for years. My prayers have been answered and I can now go anywhere without worry or care! She was the most evil woman I have encountered in my life."
We will continue our investigation and bring you further information and reaction from the Trollywood community.
The Trollywood community has not been supportive of Richa. The Malhotra family refused to comment on the developments. While Saagar and Monisha Malhotra could not be reached, Malini Malhotra maintained that "we were completely unaware of this and have no comment for Gayfare at this time." Others like Malati Chopra lashed out saying "I applaud the person or people responsible for exposing this evil woman by notifying law enforcement. She will reap exactly what she sowed." Amrita has some harsh words for Richa as well - "I have been waiting for this day for years. My prayers have been answered and I can now go anywhere without worry or care! She was the most evil woman I have encountered in my life."
We will continue our investigation and bring you further information and reaction from the Trollywood community.
Wednesday
Our Senior Advisors...
Every one of us makes many decisions each day. Few of them stand alone as "make or break" choices, but in total they determine the quality of our lives. Despite this fact very few of us take the time to think about who we turn to when making decisions.
We asked some renowned Trollywood celebrities to honor their “senior advisors,” or those that they relied on to make key decisions:
Deepika Parajuli -
My girlfriend JP is the only person whose advice I listen to. I guess you can call her my Senior Advisor.
Malati Chopra -
My director Kanti Raj Shah is always giving me practical advice so I'd give him the title of my Sr. Advisor. But how I wish he'd offer me some meaningful movies and stop approaching me with crude rape flicks!
Natasha Rai-
My senior advisor is Lord Krishna of Bhagavad-Gita whose teachings provide a definitive guide for self realization and intellect.
Chandramukhi –
Not many people know that I have met Madhuri Dixit in person. When I told her that I considered her to be my idol and always tried to copy her, she told me that she was very flattered. But she advised me that “If you copy someone, you are limiting yourself to only becoming as good as that person. Why limit yourself when you could do much better?” I live by her humble and selfless advice.
Monisha B. Malhotra -
The man I respect more than anyone in this world. My friend, philosopher, guide and my husband - Saagar Malhotra. He has been the rock in my life. The one person that always stood by me, no matter what. He is my angel and my only senior advisor.
Malini N. Malhotra -
Surprisingly it’s not my hubby but my mother in-law! We didn’t quite start off on the right note but over time we have built a strong relationship. From planning parties to shopping for clothes and from makeup tips to styling, mummy advises me on everything. She is my respected Senior Advisor!
Aalisha Sharma -
My little brother who also happens to be my biggest fan. He's supportive of my decision to enter Trollywood and I accepted my first movie based on his advice.
Amritaa -
My fiancé Sumit and the best advice he gave me was our wedding date of Feb 14, 2009.
We asked some renowned Trollywood celebrities to honor their “senior advisors,” or those that they relied on to make key decisions:
Deepika Parajuli -
My girlfriend JP is the only person whose advice I listen to. I guess you can call her my Senior Advisor.
Malati Chopra -
My director Kanti Raj Shah is always giving me practical advice so I'd give him the title of my Sr. Advisor. But how I wish he'd offer me some meaningful movies and stop approaching me with crude rape flicks!
Natasha Rai-
My senior advisor is Lord Krishna of Bhagavad-Gita whose teachings provide a definitive guide for self realization and intellect.
Chandramukhi –
Not many people know that I have met Madhuri Dixit in person. When I told her that I considered her to be my idol and always tried to copy her, she told me that she was very flattered. But she advised me that “If you copy someone, you are limiting yourself to only becoming as good as that person. Why limit yourself when you could do much better?” I live by her humble and selfless advice.
Monisha B. Malhotra -
The man I respect more than anyone in this world. My friend, philosopher, guide and my husband - Saagar Malhotra. He has been the rock in my life. The one person that always stood by me, no matter what. He is my angel and my only senior advisor.
Malini N. Malhotra -
Surprisingly it’s not my hubby but my mother in-law! We didn’t quite start off on the right note but over time we have built a strong relationship. From planning parties to shopping for clothes and from makeup tips to styling, mummy advises me on everything. She is my respected Senior Advisor!
Aalisha Sharma -
My little brother who also happens to be my biggest fan. He's supportive of my decision to enter Trollywood and I accepted my first movie based on his advice.
Amritaa -
My fiancé Sumit and the best advice he gave me was our wedding date of Feb 14, 2009.
Friday
MONISHA RETURNS!
For those of you that haven't heard, our belowed Monisha was apparently caught up in the trap of a very dangerous woman who resides in Manitoba. The woman used her as bait for an illegal scam. Thanks to the authorities of Thailand and Monisha's fighting spirit, she is now safe and sound. We have confirmation from a reliable source that she is scheduled to arrive at the Los Angeles International Airport on Saturday morning. The Malhotra family have flown into Los Angeles to receive her.
More details to follow. Stay tuned to Gayfare Online for more late breaking news.
Staff Reporter
More details to follow. Stay tuned to Gayfare Online for more late breaking news.
Staff Reporter
Monday
the birth of a style icon...
Q. There are rumors that BPP has signed a 3 film deal with you for a huge amount of money. How can this be justified since you had a flop in Laaga Chunari not too long ago?
How I wish BPP is rich enough to pay me for my work.. Jokes aside, We all know BPP is doing this poll survey thing to select the actress most wanted by people for their upcoming films. So there is no question of signing such 3 film exclusive deals. Regarding the box office failure of LCMD, every actress goes thru' this phase and that should not be the yardstick for her public demand.
Q. I really liked your fresh look on the Vogue cover. Why don't you smile more in your movies?
Most of the movies I have done and the role I played in them are so intense that I can't even smile even if I wanted to. Just think of love lost Paro of Devdas, Natasha with stained veil in LCMD and Chandni, the other woman of Silsila. I had to give that serious look to justify my characters. When Vogue offer came to me I told BPP to show my pearls as thats my biggest assets (smiles)
Q. Of all the films you have done, which one is your favorite and why?
I will never forget the role of Paro I played for the purpose of helping some Devdas. But it backfired at me as I was labelled to be proud and arrogant just like her. However, The role is very dear to me as I can relate myself to it as just like Paro I will never sacrifice my self pride for any man. The movie Devdas is also very close to my heart as it was the begining of all of our career and the birth of Trollywood.
Q. Can you give any advice to young newcomers in Trollywood? Specifically, can you tell how to get into the movies and how to stay successful like you?
Well take beautiful pics, make a portfolio and take some screen tests for BPP. Mr. Bhansali is alwyas after fresh looks to cast. one advice I can give you as a new actress is alwyas think of the character you are playing and don't just pose for a picture. Use your gesture, dress code and hair that will suit the character the most. Another advice is always be true to yourself and calm. As an actress, you are exposed to praises as well as petty remarks. Never let them get into your head as this could be the begining of your fall.
Q. We haven't heard anything about your personal life lately. How are things going on that front?
As every actress, I have two lives one for the public and one private. I really donot like to mix them. However, I do get affected at times with the public opinion about my personal life. As for my personal life, I can tell you for now it cannot be any better (smiles).
Q. I think you completely stole the show in Silsila. Congratulations and please tell us how you identified with the character in this film?
So sweet, I think you are one of the few who thought I stole the show in Silsila (smiles). I definitely identified with the character of Chandani as like her I have come across as the other woman in people's lives. Just like her, I have been termed the forbidden love they couldnot appreciate or respect for some family sacrifice.
Q. In this age of video, why have we not seen a single video from you? Are you hiding something?
Oh God, Where is the need of a video when you are watching the movie slides of BPP? I definitely would not put my private life on a video if thats what you meant as I am not a Paris Hilton (smiles).
What is your market price now after the phenomenal success of Silsila? We hear BPP pays you a premium?
BPP is family but I would never ask them to be biased to me as that means I would be using them for my benefit. Thats not being a family. They have their own freedom and choice and they can pay me whatever my portion of the success of the film. What we share in person is not being reflected in our profession. BPP is so rigid and fair that no matter how hard I try, I am always the No.2 (frowns)
Q. I think you are even better as journalist than actress. Please please please continue writing and could you please publish on http://gayfare.blogspot.com as this is easier to access?
I was enjoying writing Page 6 and chose you as the first one to be featured. I listened to someone's suggestion and even wrote article on Gay Bollywood. But I don't know what happened, BPP told me that I have to stop writing as few people took it as a threat. I still have not understood that part but then I wouldn't want to hurt anyone by continuing to write.
Q. As a fan I just wanted to tell Natasha Rai that I love her work in films and also advice to her if I may that she should do more solo actress roles and less multiple actress roles. She seems to look better when there are no other distractions.
Thanks for liking my work. Multistarrers are really in public demand and I have to go with the flow. Moreover, it also provides us a field for positive competition and growth. I just have to make sure that I am not typecast in those distractive tearjerking roles (smiles). As an actress, I will make sure that my role is strong enough in both the solo and multistarrers and that I meet the expectation of my fans.
How I wish BPP is rich enough to pay me for my work.. Jokes aside, We all know BPP is doing this poll survey thing to select the actress most wanted by people for their upcoming films. So there is no question of signing such 3 film exclusive deals. Regarding the box office failure of LCMD, every actress goes thru' this phase and that should not be the yardstick for her public demand.
Q. I really liked your fresh look on the Vogue cover. Why don't you smile more in your movies?
Most of the movies I have done and the role I played in them are so intense that I can't even smile even if I wanted to. Just think of love lost Paro of Devdas, Natasha with stained veil in LCMD and Chandni, the other woman of Silsila. I had to give that serious look to justify my characters. When Vogue offer came to me I told BPP to show my pearls as thats my biggest assets (smiles)
Q. Of all the films you have done, which one is your favorite and why?
I will never forget the role of Paro I played for the purpose of helping some Devdas. But it backfired at me as I was labelled to be proud and arrogant just like her. However, The role is very dear to me as I can relate myself to it as just like Paro I will never sacrifice my self pride for any man. The movie Devdas is also very close to my heart as it was the begining of all of our career and the birth of Trollywood.
Q. Can you give any advice to young newcomers in Trollywood? Specifically, can you tell how to get into the movies and how to stay successful like you?
Well take beautiful pics, make a portfolio and take some screen tests for BPP. Mr. Bhansali is alwyas after fresh looks to cast. one advice I can give you as a new actress is alwyas think of the character you are playing and don't just pose for a picture. Use your gesture, dress code and hair that will suit the character the most. Another advice is always be true to yourself and calm. As an actress, you are exposed to praises as well as petty remarks. Never let them get into your head as this could be the begining of your fall.
Q. We haven't heard anything about your personal life lately. How are things going on that front?
As every actress, I have two lives one for the public and one private. I really donot like to mix them. However, I do get affected at times with the public opinion about my personal life. As for my personal life, I can tell you for now it cannot be any better (smiles).
Q. I think you completely stole the show in Silsila. Congratulations and please tell us how you identified with the character in this film?
So sweet, I think you are one of the few who thought I stole the show in Silsila (smiles). I definitely identified with the character of Chandani as like her I have come across as the other woman in people's lives. Just like her, I have been termed the forbidden love they couldnot appreciate or respect for some family sacrifice.
Q. In this age of video, why have we not seen a single video from you? Are you hiding something?
Oh God, Where is the need of a video when you are watching the movie slides of BPP? I definitely would not put my private life on a video if thats what you meant as I am not a Paris Hilton (smiles).
What is your market price now after the phenomenal success of Silsila? We hear BPP pays you a premium?
BPP is family but I would never ask them to be biased to me as that means I would be using them for my benefit. Thats not being a family. They have their own freedom and choice and they can pay me whatever my portion of the success of the film. What we share in person is not being reflected in our profession. BPP is so rigid and fair that no matter how hard I try, I am always the No.2 (frowns)
Q. I think you are even better as journalist than actress. Please please please continue writing and could you please publish on http://gayfare.blogspot.com as this is easier to access?
I was enjoying writing Page 6 and chose you as the first one to be featured. I listened to someone's suggestion and even wrote article on Gay Bollywood. But I don't know what happened, BPP told me that I have to stop writing as few people took it as a threat. I still have not understood that part but then I wouldn't want to hurt anyone by continuing to write.
Q. As a fan I just wanted to tell Natasha Rai that I love her work in films and also advice to her if I may that she should do more solo actress roles and less multiple actress roles. She seems to look better when there are no other distractions.
Thanks for liking my work. Multistarrers are really in public demand and I have to go with the flow. Moreover, it also provides us a field for positive competition and growth. I just have to make sure that I am not typecast in those distractive tearjerking roles (smiles). As an actress, I will make sure that my role is strong enough in both the solo and multistarrers and that I meet the expectation of my fans.
Friday
Madam M handles some tough questions...
Q. You showed us your beautiful million dolllar pentouse of Horse Shoe Bay in video and next day you deleted the video, Any particular reason for that?
Many nasty rumors were circulating full of lies that I live in the slums or "jhoparpatti" with plastic roof. Also that I look ugly like a dark Bihari person and Silsila pictures were not my face! All my loved ones were very disturbed by these sick rumors. My husband and entire family asked me to record a video showing myself the way I am naturally and where I am living. The reason was not to show off but to show how I live in REALITY and to give a slap to the face of the person behind the rumors. My husband did upload the video but after looking at it, I felt that it could be misinterpreted as showing off. That is just not who I am as I am a very humble and real person. That’s why I requested him to immediately pull the video down.
Q. BPP must pay you really well so that you could afford such expensive living?
Regarding luxuries, as everyone knows I am married into the prestigious Malhotra family and everything I have today is theirs and vice versa. But material pleasure was and is not of any importance to me. I have seen some really bad times in my life and whatever I have today is a result of my bhakti and blessings from Durga Ma.
Q. You claim to be such a devotee of hindu goddess Durga but you are a Christian by religion. What motivated you for this claim?
This is another baseless rumor spread by the same person responsible for the rumors about me living in jhopadpatti and looking bad. The truth is written on my birth certificate as everyone knows I was born biologically as a Hindu boy and my name was Mahesh Nanku and today I am Malini Nanku Malhotra. I have never tried to hide any part of my past and I don’t go around changing my name every season. People who do this are living in la la land. I sympathize with these people that are living in fantasyland because obviously the reality of their so called life is so harsh.
Q. Rumor has it that you had 4 car accidents in last 3 years? The media also claims you are suffering from cancer and undergoing chemo. Is this just a media hoax?
As you have said yourself, this is nothing more than rumors. For most of my life I did not have or drive a car and I am not ashamed of my humble beginnings. In fact I am proud of it. When I started driving after meeting my husband, I had a few minor accidents. They were not even my fault as the other party was proved to be at fault so I don't understand the relevance of this question. Regarding my medical or health conditions, no person should discuss such private matters in a public interview. The Medical Council of Canada guarantees the privacy of all citizens and I am no exception.
Q. You have confessed that you used BOTOX to enhance your beauty, and you like to flaunt your property, Yet you claim to be humble and down to earth. How is that related?
If people know that I am using BOTOX it is because I told them so. I have absolutely nothing to hide so I am very honest and upfront. Millions of people around the world wear make-up, exercise and botox to maintain their looks. It is not like I had surgery so what is the big deal? As I've said before the intention of showing my real face and home were not to show off. We wanted to give a slap to the face of people creating sick fantasies and stories about my looks and home by showing my real home and real self.
Q. How does your family deal with all the rumors that come from being a celebrity?
We Malhotras find it amusing how desperate people are for spreading these stories about our lives. But maybe it’s because they don't have a life of their own. We have always maintained our dignity, self respect and humility at the face of all evil. But looking at the life of people spreading these rumours we feel nothing but pity. I used to be called black person from Bihar but everyone has seen me and appreciated my looks but does the person spreading rumors have guts to show the real face on video? Maybe because they are so ugly that they are afraid to show the real self. They said I live in jhopadpatti but you have seen where I live. Do people spreading rumours have the guts to put video of their so called penthouse? Maybe because the people creating stories are living themselves in cheap buildings in the dirty suburbs. Kismat ne bhi kitna ganda mazak kiya hai uske saath. These people are so despearte in seeking love even when they know deep down that nobody would want anything to do with them - not even as friends. No wonder they are jealous of my husband, my family and my home. Durga Ma has always blessed me and kept me away from such evil but I tell you that I am devote of Durga Ma for a reason. If I ever come face to face with the evil person, they will know exactly why.
Q. Has marriage changed you? If so how?
It has not made me arrogant. I am and always will be a humble servant of Durga Ma. But marriage has definitely made me much more confident. In the past I would let people take me for granted. I was very naïve and trusting and people often took advantage of that. The prestige of being a Malhotra bahu has given me a boost of confidence and made me a no-nonsense person. Earlier when someone would slap me in one cheek I would offer the other. Now if someone dare slap me in one cheek I will slap them in both cheeks and give them a piece of my mind.
Q. Any new film developments?
Right now I have wrapped up shooting for RACE. As you know I have always received critical acclaim for all my movies but they were mostly Indian characters. In playing Sofia, I am taking a big risk but one that I know will pay off. I have full faith that BPP banner will not let me down and all your doubts too will be erased once you see my fabulous new look in Race so watch out! I have had several offers but at this stage of my career I want to experiment with playing roles that I didn’t have the confidence to carry while I was single and unsuccessful. I want to set an example
Q. Are you aware that hoards of Indian men think you're the perfect woman?
Is this an image I'm working hard to live up to? No, I have always just been real and human. If I was really trying to live up to that perception of me, that would be too much pressure. I'm not acting to an image. I have to get into another character enough in front of the camera. If people think I am just an image, they're wrong. I'm just being the girl I was brought up to be.
Q. There have been rumors that your family has delayed RACE several times because of their constant interference. Please comment.
They have never interfered with my work. In fact they have always encouraged me to pursue all my interests. When I first shot for the film I was anxious to please my fans by proving that I can pull off a glamorous look. So I wore some outfits that my in-laws were concerned about. They felt that the look did not fit my post-marriage image of a Malhotra bahu. I expressed these concerns to Raj and he was kind enough to agree for a re-shoot. The BPP banner understands that while I am passionate about exploring different and challenging roles, my number one priority is my family’s pride and respect.
Q. You seem to have achieved it all. Have you considered quitting while you’re still on top?
Never. Everything I have achieved in my life has been through Trollywood. In just the last 5 years I have got everything I used to dream of as a child in the 1970’s. I don’t know how to give it all up. All I can do is pray that I continue to have the love and support of my fans. And if I am living in a dream then I don’t want to wake up. Jeena yahan marna yahan..eeske siva jaana kahan?
Many nasty rumors were circulating full of lies that I live in the slums or "jhoparpatti" with plastic roof. Also that I look ugly like a dark Bihari person and Silsila pictures were not my face! All my loved ones were very disturbed by these sick rumors. My husband and entire family asked me to record a video showing myself the way I am naturally and where I am living. The reason was not to show off but to show how I live in REALITY and to give a slap to the face of the person behind the rumors. My husband did upload the video but after looking at it, I felt that it could be misinterpreted as showing off. That is just not who I am as I am a very humble and real person. That’s why I requested him to immediately pull the video down.
Q. BPP must pay you really well so that you could afford such expensive living?
Regarding luxuries, as everyone knows I am married into the prestigious Malhotra family and everything I have today is theirs and vice versa. But material pleasure was and is not of any importance to me. I have seen some really bad times in my life and whatever I have today is a result of my bhakti and blessings from Durga Ma.
Q. You claim to be such a devotee of hindu goddess Durga but you are a Christian by religion. What motivated you for this claim?
This is another baseless rumor spread by the same person responsible for the rumors about me living in jhopadpatti and looking bad. The truth is written on my birth certificate as everyone knows I was born biologically as a Hindu boy and my name was Mahesh Nanku and today I am Malini Nanku Malhotra. I have never tried to hide any part of my past and I don’t go around changing my name every season. People who do this are living in la la land. I sympathize with these people that are living in fantasyland because obviously the reality of their so called life is so harsh.
Q. Rumor has it that you had 4 car accidents in last 3 years? The media also claims you are suffering from cancer and undergoing chemo. Is this just a media hoax?
As you have said yourself, this is nothing more than rumors. For most of my life I did not have or drive a car and I am not ashamed of my humble beginnings. In fact I am proud of it. When I started driving after meeting my husband, I had a few minor accidents. They were not even my fault as the other party was proved to be at fault so I don't understand the relevance of this question. Regarding my medical or health conditions, no person should discuss such private matters in a public interview. The Medical Council of Canada guarantees the privacy of all citizens and I am no exception.
Q. You have confessed that you used BOTOX to enhance your beauty, and you like to flaunt your property, Yet you claim to be humble and down to earth. How is that related?
If people know that I am using BOTOX it is because I told them so. I have absolutely nothing to hide so I am very honest and upfront. Millions of people around the world wear make-up, exercise and botox to maintain their looks. It is not like I had surgery so what is the big deal? As I've said before the intention of showing my real face and home were not to show off. We wanted to give a slap to the face of people creating sick fantasies and stories about my looks and home by showing my real home and real self.
Q. How does your family deal with all the rumors that come from being a celebrity?
We Malhotras find it amusing how desperate people are for spreading these stories about our lives. But maybe it’s because they don't have a life of their own. We have always maintained our dignity, self respect and humility at the face of all evil. But looking at the life of people spreading these rumours we feel nothing but pity. I used to be called black person from Bihar but everyone has seen me and appreciated my looks but does the person spreading rumors have guts to show the real face on video? Maybe because they are so ugly that they are afraid to show the real self. They said I live in jhopadpatti but you have seen where I live. Do people spreading rumours have the guts to put video of their so called penthouse? Maybe because the people creating stories are living themselves in cheap buildings in the dirty suburbs. Kismat ne bhi kitna ganda mazak kiya hai uske saath. These people are so despearte in seeking love even when they know deep down that nobody would want anything to do with them - not even as friends. No wonder they are jealous of my husband, my family and my home. Durga Ma has always blessed me and kept me away from such evil but I tell you that I am devote of Durga Ma for a reason. If I ever come face to face with the evil person, they will know exactly why.
Q. Has marriage changed you? If so how?
It has not made me arrogant. I am and always will be a humble servant of Durga Ma. But marriage has definitely made me much more confident. In the past I would let people take me for granted. I was very naïve and trusting and people often took advantage of that. The prestige of being a Malhotra bahu has given me a boost of confidence and made me a no-nonsense person. Earlier when someone would slap me in one cheek I would offer the other. Now if someone dare slap me in one cheek I will slap them in both cheeks and give them a piece of my mind.
Q. Any new film developments?
Right now I have wrapped up shooting for RACE. As you know I have always received critical acclaim for all my movies but they were mostly Indian characters. In playing Sofia, I am taking a big risk but one that I know will pay off. I have full faith that BPP banner will not let me down and all your doubts too will be erased once you see my fabulous new look in Race so watch out! I have had several offers but at this stage of my career I want to experiment with playing roles that I didn’t have the confidence to carry while I was single and unsuccessful. I want to set an example
Q. Are you aware that hoards of Indian men think you're the perfect woman?
Is this an image I'm working hard to live up to? No, I have always just been real and human. If I was really trying to live up to that perception of me, that would be too much pressure. I'm not acting to an image. I have to get into another character enough in front of the camera. If people think I am just an image, they're wrong. I'm just being the girl I was brought up to be.
Q. There have been rumors that your family has delayed RACE several times because of their constant interference. Please comment.
They have never interfered with my work. In fact they have always encouraged me to pursue all my interests. When I first shot for the film I was anxious to please my fans by proving that I can pull off a glamorous look. So I wore some outfits that my in-laws were concerned about. They felt that the look did not fit my post-marriage image of a Malhotra bahu. I expressed these concerns to Raj and he was kind enough to agree for a re-shoot. The BPP banner understands that while I am passionate about exploring different and challenging roles, my number one priority is my family’s pride and respect.
Q. You seem to have achieved it all. Have you considered quitting while you’re still on top?
Never. Everything I have achieved in my life has been through Trollywood. In just the last 5 years I have got everything I used to dream of as a child in the 1970’s. I don’t know how to give it all up. All I can do is pray that I continue to have the love and support of my fans. And if I am living in a dream then I don’t want to wake up. Jeena yahan marna yahan..eeske siva jaana kahan?
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